Exactly, Marly. No one can say what the motives are from either end….hers or his. Is it possible to “love” someone over the internet or phone? I do not think so. Is it possible for two people to love each other from divergent cultures and backgrounds. Yes.
Is it possible for an “older” woman and “younger” man to have a committed and loving relationship? You bet.
My husband is from Europe and 14 years younger.
He had just turned 24 when I met him. I was 38.
5 years later we are still together in every way.

What if we were told tomorrow with complete confidence and proof that there is such a thing as reincarnation? That would make our souls very ancient and our present age would mean little other than to date our current life experiences.
We would very likely connect to people we had known in prior lifetimes…for whatever reason.

If this is likely then why would it matter about age or cultural background? Men have been marrying women young enough to be their daughters and no one seems to blink when it happens.

All this said I find it highly unlikely to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone based on electronic communication.

We have no way of knowing, do we?

I agree with strawberry fields; we just have to let things unfold!

and for the question from Jamie: “Is it possible to “love” someone over the internet or phone?”

I think it is, if you’re an aquarius.

I think that’s a great point to ponder, too, Jamie. Me? I need to be in someone’s “stream”, as I call it. By this I mean that I need to be in someone’s presence; sometimes just being next to someone, even without touching that person, can give me a lot of information. I will feel his moods/thoughts, even, as if I were swimming in a body of water. This is why I call it a stream. I’m learning how to handle my Pisces Moon/Virgo Pluto opposition by combining the “intuitive” element with the “discerning” element (as opposed to the blindly accepting and the harsh judgmental parts of that polarity). But the only way I can do this is by meeting someone personally.

“This is why I call it a stream. I’m learning how to handle my Pisces Moon/Virgo Pluto opposition by combining the “intuitive” element with the “discerning” element (as opposed to the blindly accepting and the harsh judgmental parts of that polarity).”

Exactly, Marly! I must be in someone’s “stream” to be able to assess (accurately) their energy…. and intentions. I have a water Moon also conjunt Neptune in an Angular house and it is involved in a Midpoint….so I read people all to loud and clear…..whether I want to or not. While I can read over the phone and the energy of one’s writing style I prefer to give them the benefit of my doubt (Jupiter) before I jump to any serious conclusions (this is what get’s me in trouble). So personal contact is very important for me to make an intelligent and informed assessment of character.
Personally, people who get involved via the Internet scare me. There seems to be a lot of Uranus and Neptune involved in the transaction which scares the bejeezus out of my Saturn in Aquarius! I guess I need to work on my Saturn…..and Jupiter.