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Astrology Of Fixation In Relationship: Cardinal Grand Cross in Synasty

December 6th, 2006 @ 2:06 pm by Elsa

Astrology in Real Life

“He’s stuck to you like mistletoe to oak.” That’s what my pal at the gym, Denis from Cameroon said today regarding, “The Salesman”.

“What?”

Denis twisted himself up. “You know how mistletoe attaches to oak? Once it does, it won’t let go.”

I got a mind picture. “Yeah. Well I’ve noticed that and I’m glad I’m not the only one. I’ve told him no, many times. Lots of time. Nothing stops him. I am pretty sure I could hit him with a truck and he’d still keep coming…”

Denis laughed and I went into the astrology. See these men, astro-twins, Salesman and my Special Forces ex have a T-square in their chart. Charts, since it is the same T-square. And the n node fills in the T-square, and guess who’s Mars Mercury is conjunct their n node? Me.

So that means the madder I get, (Mars Mercury) the more I cuss, the more I swing motorcycle helmets at them… the more I assert myself (prettily) in the gym, the more I look like “her” to them. The more I look like their destiny.

So as you can see, it’s hopeless. Any action I take (Mars). Any communication I make (Mercury) reinforces their resolve. Isn’t that a hoot?

Have you ever stuck to someone like mistletoe to oak? What about the reverse?

Astrology, Astrology in Real Life, Astrology, denis, grand-cross, synastry, 8 comments | Posted at 2:06 pm

8 Responses to “Astrology Of Fixation In Relationship: Cardinal Grand Cross in Synasty”

Moni

Disengage, girl. That’ll take the charge out of it for them. Unless you’re getting something out of the exchange. Nothing wrong with that.

12/6/06 @ 2:50 pm (reply)

Elsa

Moni – that’s good advice. I actually enjoy my ex very much and the Salesman? Well I get on the cross-trainer, he gets on the machine next to me and chats. Not non-stop. he used but he’s made adjustments. And it does not seem worth complaining about… like telling the mgmt I am being harassed or something. The guy just likes me. He wants to talk to me and be my… whatever he can.

What I do is limit my exposure. Our schedules are not in sync so the most he can do is collide with me for 10-15 min on a cross-trainer and for that much, it is probably worth the research.

12/6/06 @ 3:08 pm (reply)

Lori

Oh yeah I have…my soulmate! =) We’ve been inseperable for almost three years now and going strong.

12/6/06 @ 4:49 pm (reply)

Dani

Funny stuff about you and the Special Forces guy! I don’t understand how/why you came to have this weird relationship.

12/6/06 @ 8:04 pm (reply)

Christine

Dani, it’s the mistletoe effect!

As for my own, I have had this experience. With that weird deranged guy (suicidal anorexic companion/random ride share on road trip). Even after we parted ways, we still bumped into one another for MONTHS. Once, I was 500 miles away from where I saw him last, and he was seated next to me ON A TRAIN.
This would sound unbelievable, except for the fact that it is true.

12/6/06 @ 8:25 pm (reply)

Lexa Rosean

great analogy!

12/7/06 @ 12:08 am (reply)

Marly

Yes, I have been stuck to someone. I don’t know their chart or I could tell you if this applies but I have a t-square and I’m betting it does. I’m betting that’s exactly what it is.

12/7/06 @ 7:21 am (reply)

I have a grand cardinal cross in a composite chart with this guy i’ve been kinda seeing for a while and boy do i know about it! We argue pretty much on a daily basis but somehow keep going back for more. We have a grand fire trine too which kinda softens the blow though being in fire and with moon/merc/mars involved in the mix it’s not always that soft.
In synastry my venus & mars makes a grand trine to his north node and his moon & uranus make one to mine. Our moons sextile and both conjunct each others sun/moon midpoints and both our suns fall in each others 8th house. Our venus’ also fall in each others 7th house but both oppose each others saturn. It’s a rollercoaster for sure and sometimes i’m not sure it’s worth it but we cant seem to break it off. Cos when it’s good honey flows through my veins and i feel home. And when its bad and i finally think it’s over i feel despair. Not sure how long i’ll be able to take this range of emotions for, as i think it might kill me but hopefully we’ll both come out of it (if we ever come out of it..)more rounded people. Squares are always a challenge but a grand square has no outlet and seems to literally blow it’s top; double that for a cardinal one i’d say.