Moni – that’s good advice. I actually enjoy my ex very much and the Salesman? Well I get on the cross-trainer, he gets on the machine next to me and chats. Not non-stop. he used but he’s made adjustments. And it does not seem worth complaining about… like telling the mgmt I am being harassed or something. The guy just likes me. He wants to talk to me and be my… whatever he can.

What I do is limit my exposure. Our schedules are not in sync so the most he can do is collide with me for 10-15 min on a cross-trainer and for that much, it is probably worth the research.

Funny stuff about you and the Special Forces guy! I don’t understand how/why you came to have this weird relationship.

great analogy!

I have a grand cardinal cross in a composite chart with this guy i’ve been kinda seeing for a while and boy do i know about it! We argue pretty much on a daily basis but somehow keep going back for more. We have a grand fire trine too which kinda softens the blow though being in fire and with moon/merc/mars involved in the mix it’s not always that soft.
In synastry my venus & mars makes a grand trine to his north node and his moon & uranus make one to mine. Our moons sextile and both conjunct each others sun/moon midpoints and both our suns fall in each others 8th house. Our venus’ also fall in each others 7th house but both oppose each others saturn. It’s a rollercoaster for sure and sometimes i’m not sure it’s worth it but we cant seem to break it off. Cos when it’s good honey flows through my veins and i feel home. And when its bad and i finally think it’s over i feel despair. Not sure how long i’ll be able to take this range of emotions for, as i think it might kill me but hopefully we’ll both come out of it (if we ever come out of it..)more rounded people. Squares are always a challenge but a grand square has no outlet and seems to literally blow it’s top; double that for a cardinal one i’d say.