She’s 22 Years Old And Has Never Dated: Aries Sun, Sagittarius Moon Conjunct Uranus
Dear Elsa,
I am a 22 year old woman and I feel like I am behind the “powercurve” when it comes to dating and love.
I feel very inexperienced in this area. I didn’t date at all in high school and college. The closest I’ve come to a relationship is talking to someone for two months, but I ended it because I knew I didn’t see him romantically. I am a strong and independent woman with a wonderful personality, but I have never felt a romantic connection with anyone. I worry because everyone around me is getting married or has someone. I would just like to understand why…
Thank you,
Single
Dear Single,
You already know why. You are not partnered because you are a strong independent woman and being partnered in not your priority. And yes, your chart reflects this. So what you’re really finding out at 22 years old is that you are atypical, and it’s for real.
So should you do anything about this? I don’t know. There is no sense striving to be someone you’re not or to get something you don’t want. How are you going to cozy up to someone when you have no desire to be near them? That does not compute! So if you are waiting to feel what you see most of us feel (a strong desire to be connected), I don’t think it’s going to happen. But I’ll tell you what will work, given your chart.
You may want to start experimenting (Uranus) with the idea of a running buddy (Sagittarius Moon). You may want to scan around and find someone who looks tasty and challenging (Venus in Aries) and try to hunt them. You may want to form a relationship with someone who likes to fight. You know. Someone who wants to mix it up. Someone who wants to tango.
This stuff might stimulate you, but what you are really learning at this age is that you are an authentic anomaly… and that’s okay.
Good luck.
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2 Responses to “She’s 22 Years Old And Has Never Dated: Aries Sun, Sagittarius Moon Conjunct Uranus”
What a freaky post!
The chart that is mentioned is practically identical to mine! (Not the Venus in Aries, mine is Pisces, 3rd house.) I’m 19, not 22 but I was pondering the same issue not two days ago.
I hope your advice helped that lady. I’m going to think it over for a while.
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