Dear Unsure,

Yes, you’re right about the Saturn return. Around 28 -29 years old, people feel pressured to define themselves as adults, so your angsty feelings are very normal. That said, I can’t tell you what to do.

See, the entire point of the Saturn return is that you act on what is inside of you… what is authentic to you, rather than something that comes in from the outside. Ultimately these life decisions are yours to make.

But I can throw some light on your situation and offer my perspective. First, I do not think you should commit to anything when you feel unsure. I am not even sure this can be done. You know. Head off in the wrong direction, and you’ll stumble. There will be signs!

But being “scared” is not the same thing as being unsure! So this is what you want to look at. Are you avoiding because you are afraid? Or are you avoiding because you are not sure if the path is really the right one for you?

Now with Saturn opposing Neptune in the sky, clarity at the moment is going to be very hard to come by. So I would recommend you cut yourself some slack. You can’t figure something out, until you figure something out, can you?

Astrology promises this will clarify with a little more time. In spite of your fears, I have little doubt you will be on the right track by mid-year. Good luck.
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