Dear Standing,

When a man tells you he is in love with another woman, dreaming of another woman… well, this is your cue to leave. And it’s very of smart of you to be catching on to your propensity to attract these situations. So how about I try to help you with that?

First, regarding all these “not good for you” men you attract: you are not a victim. What happens is, stuations like this show up, and you choose to participate. And I believe the reason is, all this Virgo and Pisces / 12th house energy in your chart. You want to sacrifice. You want to hang on a cross, you just can’t help yourself.

And you know, I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. I think it is natural for a person with a chart like yours to want to serve, to want to sacrifice. But to who… and for what? Some random guy who loves someone else? That makes no sense. You need a better cause.

Kiss this guy goodbye. Look for another cause, one more deserving of your time, energy, and gifts. But even more importantly: if would help you greatly if you could find something larger and more universal than a mere “relationship” to focus on.

Because if you can do this, it will be very fulfilling for you, while simultaneously making you far more attractive to men. Because nothing is more appealing to a man than a woman with passion and a life of her own.

Good luck.

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