Dear Potential,

I’m sorry, but I think your should keeping trying to work this out. I don’t think this is an easy path, but I do think it is in your best interest. Because at this point you have too many loose ends and if you try to just hack the relationship off, it will be like cutting your own arm off… very hard to stop the bleeding.

The grown-up thing to do is to quit counting her transgressions, or speculating about her motives. Instead, approach her and talk to her like an adult. Nothing but good can come of this. You will undoubtedly learn something and whatever it is will be valuable.

You may learn she has a completely different version of events that is as valid as your own. Knowing this would grow you and help you expand. It would help you be a better person.

You may also learn she is a horrible bitch, which is fine too. Because then you can walk away clean. Cauterized, not bleeding, bleeding, bleeding. But I’ll tell you something. I do think the onus is on you and here’s why.

You’re a double Leo. Saturn is transiting your sign right now, insisting that you clutch it up and conduct yourself in a way that is mature… even beyond reproach, if you can manage it. Class, not trash! And is it classy to take a position opposite someone, with your arms crossed and your lip out? It’s not.

Go be a hero. Go in there, like Hercules and slay the Hydra.

Good luck.

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pictured – Hercules and the Hydra, Antonio del Pollaiuolo c. 1475 Tempera on wood, 17 x 12 cm Galleria degli Uffizi, Florence