Dear Frustrated,

Well it already “works”. You guys have been amusing each other for six months. But do I think you’re going to meet, move in together, marry, etc.? Not likely. Sorry!

Look, what you’ve got on the other end of the line there, is a flirt. And there is nothing wrong with that. But when he canceled your trip… well he sent you a clear message he is not interested in any more than what he’s got with you. For reason, who knows! He may have a wife. He may have four wives. Get it?

So I think when he rejected you like that, it hurt. It hurt your Capricorn, for sure – so your dreamy Venus in the 12th took over and fogged this all up for you. That was nice. But now you’re writing me for a reality check, and this is it.

He’s a flirt and you actually like a fair amount of space. If you doubt this, compare this to me. Six months? ::laughs:: If I were to meet a man online, there better be hands on me within a couple few days or I am going to fish another line.

So what I am saying is, the idea you are going to bring this man into an earthly relationship is probably fantasy. The fact he amuses you greatly is real. What you want to do about this is up to you.

Good luck.

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pictured – Dante Gabriel Rossetti, Venus Verticordia, 1864-68, Oil on canvas