Dear Girlfriend,

It’s hard for me to judge since I don’t know the nature and the quality of the love you have for your man. But of course it’s possible. And I think you are right to be considering this, because if he’s going to all the trouble and expense and angst to fight for his rights… well his daughter is way WAY up there as a priority in his life.

Now because his ex has successfully kept you out of this equation, I am afraid you may have the illusion you are your boyfriend’s #1 girl. You are his Queen, because you have yet to see your man DOTE on his daughter. You may like it this way, and this is not a criticism. Who wouldn’t like it that way? I’m just trying to clarify this for you.

See, you have never had to share him, or step aside. I assume he goes to see her, and you have to step aside for that – but I’m talking about her being in the room and having priority over you.

And you might want to think about that. Because if he gets custody, making space for her will be your new job in life. Seriously! Because children come first.

You didn’t say how old his daughter was… but with most kids, you can’t stick them in the closet when you want time alone with your man. You have to deal with them constantly and this requires a degree of maturity.

So can you do it? You can if you want to, because you’ve got the goods. Just fire up your Venus (exalted) in Pisces. Pisces love is like fog. Throw your dreamy love around him and it’ll be hard to not to love her too, when she’s standing right next to him.

Good luck.

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