Dating Scorpio

December 10th, 2005 @ 5:12 am by Elsa

Dear Elsa,

I am dating a Scorpio man who has been betrayed a couple of times in the past. He is younger than me by around 3 years. He lives in the USA and I live in Cairo.

He rarely gets in touch with me when he is abroad. I usually initiate the contact and he is always happy to receive phone calls or emails. He often blames me for not calling that frequently.

Do you think he is interested? I don’t want him to feel as if I am pursuing him. I am also worried that “out of sight out of mind” will apply with him. I don’t know what to do. Please advise Elsa.

Worried

scorp charmDear Worried,

Yes, I think he’s interested… but he’s only interested in what he’s interested in and that’s very limited.

What are you interested in? If you are interested in getting together with a man when he comes to town, then you’ve got it. If you are interested in more than this, I think you’re going to go begging. And I’m sorry, because I know that’s painful to hear.

Here’s what I would do: stop calling him. Take your energy completely off him and see what he does. If he does nothing, you do nothing. If he does something, then perhaps there is a relationship to negotiate. But right now, you are the only one holding the thing up and I’m thinking this is lousy, sorry deal.

But that’s okay. There are a gabillion men out there. Good luck.

~~
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