Dear Cheated,

I have one question for you: do you love this man? Because you don’t really sound like you do. You sound pissed and you sound disgusted. You sound as if your pride is hurt, but you do not sound as if you especially love this guy.

Should you try make it work? Well, sure. If you love him, then absolutely. I surely don’t approve of cheating, but what’s done is done and it sounds like he’s doing everything he possibly can to make amends and win back your trust.

But I think the issue is deeper, don’t you? It sounds as if you met this man when you were utterly vulnerable. You were pregnant for chrissakes! So now you’re signed up and then he goes and pulls this shit!!!!

I think you have a lot conflicting feelings here. Your Cancer Sun is concerned with security and the welfare of your daughter. It wants to control things. The Leo in your chart… well part of you is a Queen! And who the hell does this bastard think he is cheating on you! On royalty!

Another side of you is very detached. So he cheated? Big deal! All it means is payback is fair game, and your Gemini Moon may even think this whole thing is at least a tad interesting. Hey, at least you’re not bored!

But I’ll tell you what it comes down to: DO YOU LOVE HIM? If you love him, than work through it. If not, than get the hell out of there. You can arrange and allow visitation between this man and your daughter, if it feels right. Do what you have to do. But don’t stay with this man if you don’t love him. All three of you deserve better.

Good luck.

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