Double Pisces in Love
Hi Elsa,
I have been dating this guy for a little over a year.
We recently took a break, because he wasn’t sure I was the right one (after telling me that I was). Also during the year we were together, his ex-girlfriend called him all the time, because she could not let go. I feel like he could have cut that off better, rather than let it drag out for so long.
I have been very patient with him, hoping he will come to his senses and we can have a future together – the way he has said that he wants. Well, we went to dinner last night and I just decided to ask him where he was with “us”. He got stressed and said, “Ya know I miss you and want to spend time with you, but don’t read too much into it. I don’t want to lose you, but I don’t know what I want.”
What do I do? Do I hold out hope for us, or do I move on without him…
Help!
Really Confused Double Pisces
Dear Confused,
I think you should move on and I think you should do this immediately. Never mind if you are the right one for him. He is not the right one for you.
Look, he doesn’t want what you want. Whatever he might have said at one time, he’s not saying it now. What he’s saying up there is, “I want to be able to call you if I get lonely or horny but don’t expect shit from me in return because I am confused, non committal, not that into you, in love with my ex-girlfriend, etc.”
I’m sorry. I say, cut your losses. Because a year is a long time to spend with someone to no end. That’s a large investment to be holding nothing and this what I think you have with this man. Nothing. He’s not your man and to be very candid, I don’t even think he’s your friend. Because friends don’t use each other like this.
I’m sorry. Cry your tears, then fish another line. Good luck.
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