Dear God I Hope You Get It!

Have you told him this? You don’t sound shy, so you must have! If not, please do so immediately. Tell him you need it, you want it, you’ve got to have it. Ask him if he’s going to give it to you or what.

Because I’m thinking you haven’t been laid right since the first two weeks of your relationship. And you still believe it’s going to happen? Well that’s a double Sadge for you: perennially optimistic! And I would like to agree with you hon, but I think you’re in big trouble with this man.

Being over-sexed myself, I understand your urges completely. I’ve been left for my sex drive and kept for my sex drive. But some things are constant – like the fact that I want to have sex!!! And I’ve had enough of it to know the chemistry is there and it is reciprocal… or it’s not. The sex drives match, or they don’t. And when they don’t, it’s painful in both directions.

So is your man going to spring up one day and become a five alarm fire? I doubt it. Odds are you’ll either live like this – frothing at the mouth, and chomping on your bit – or you’ll decide the situation is intolerable, and go looking for someone with a similar desire to connect.

I’m sorry, but from personal experience I believe over the long term, this is a deal-breaker for people like you and me. When we partner with someone with a lesser sex drive… well they don’t like being hounded for sex anymore than we like hounding them! And generally a gulf like this will widen over time.

I don’t know what to say. I hope he steps up and takes care of you. And if not, that you’re able to find a man who will. Because sex is enormously important to the people that it’s important to. I think it’s life-killing to go hungry in this way.

Good luck.

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