Grand Trine
Dear Elsa,
I seem to be at a standstill in my life. I just can’t find my passion, or figure out what I am suppose to be doing with my life. When I do find something I’d like to try, my hubby always suggests that I am needed here, at home.
We have a good relationship, but I am feeling a bit smothered. Can you help?
A Wife who Needs a Life
Dear Wife,
I hope so! I think you’re in danger here. See, you’ve got a Grand Trine in your chart. And this is supposed to be a great thing. It is a great thing, provided it doesn’t ruin you – and I’ll explain.
A Grand Trine consists of three planets in easy aspect to each other. People who have Grand Trines in their chart have a very clear “comfort zone”. There is always going to be a slice of their life that comes easy to them.
For you, it’s this “at home” thing. You are very good at it… however, it’s a trap! You are trapped in your trine, doing this one thing you’re good at. Meanwhile the rest of your chart – which is far more dynamic – withers away. This is why you feel the way you do.
See, to be happy, you have to “live your Sun, and satisfy your Moon.” Guess what? Your Sun and Moon are not involved in your grand trine, and to neglect them means you are not vitally alive or emotionally fed. Not good, huh? You’ve got to get out in the world!
Here is the cool thing: your Grand Trine isn’t going anywhere. You will be able to fall back on it! In other words, if you can get out and deal with some of this more meaty stuff, you will find that the “at home” stuff takes care of itself. I’ll give you an example.
I have trines in my chart that keep me happy. I am a happy son of a bitch! And when I figured this out, I realized I could go right to the edge. I could explore things that are dark and dicey and difficult, knowing I’m going to be happy regardless. No small piece of information, huh?
Right now your Grand Trine is a jail. Reconfigure so it frees you to live your Sun and satisfy your Moon. Specifically, you’ve got a lot of Virgo and Aquarius, so you’re a smart, innovative, humanitarian do-gooder. If you want to be happy, find a way to become this person. Good luck!
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