Dear Wanting,

I’ve got news for you. Not only are you lonely… but with transiting Saturn sitting right on your Moon, I suspect you’re depressed. But I think this will end up being productive for you.

See, the intense loneliness you are feeling is what will spur you towards manifesting the real relationship you crave. But you must do the work. No woman is going arrive on a white horse and save you. But I do think you’ll get what you want, and it’s closer than you think.

It helps tremendously to you define what you’re after and you’ve done that. So you can start boxing out the people and things that do not support your goal. But by far the most important thing is to commit yourself.

Make yourself willing and able to relate to a partner in an adult way. Do whatever you have to do to get to that point. Do you need therapy? Then get it. Do you have some raunchy habit that you know is thwarting you? Quit it. You get the idea.

And can you see how pain and loneliness will force you into action? That’s why you’re feeling how you do. As soon as you take practical steps towards finding a partner, you will see relief and as soon as you’re ready, that gal will absolutely show up. So you see you’re in control of this. The timing is up to you.

Good luck.

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pictured – The Waterfall, 1930, Maxfield Parrish (1870-1966)