Virgo Wants a Date
Hi Elsa,
Why don’t guys ever ask me out? I have no trouble attracting sleazy guys in clubs. But when I meet a guy I want to ask me out, he never does.
I’ve had guys tell me I’m beautiful, and when I dress nicely, I get enough looks from strangers. I don’t think I’m boring either. I just don’t know why guys don’t show any interest in me.
It’s a little annoying, because I’d like a boyfriend. I want to settle into a nice committed relationship with the right guy. I’m just worried that the way things have been going for the past 21 years, I’m never going to find anyone who wants me.
Well, that’s not true – I’m not worried about that, really. But I’d like to know what I’m doing wrong, if I’m doing something wrong, and how to do it right. Also, if I do meet a boy I like… any hints on how to him to ask me out?
Thanks!
Double Virgo
Dear Virgo,
Well, I’m glad you wrote. You really need to get the game and I’ll try to help. Here’s a bunch of information for your Virgo brain to parse.
First, you have a massive amount of Virgo in your chart. You have other things, but we’re talking about your Virgo because as you may know, Virgo is represented by the Virgin – an unmarried woman. So you are “self-contained” and people can see this. They can see that you can take it or leave it, but can you?
I don’t think so.
See, here’s the cosmic joke of your chart… which you may not think is all that funny. Your Virgo falls in the seventh house, where the seventh house represents marriage and relationships.
So basically this means you are an unmarried woman who craves partnership. It doesn’t have to be a husband. But you need a running buddy at the very least, and it may help to acknowledge this.
Now around the idea of getting someone to ask you out, you may want to rethink that. Because it doesn’t work for you and here’s a clue why. You have an Aquarius rising, which gives a fairly aloof and masculine “first handshake”. That’s okay. Lots of people love Aquarians – I know I do. But acting coy and girly is never going to work for you. Ever.
Judging from your chart, what will work is asserting yourself and acting on impulse. So this is what I recommend: next time you see some tasty guy, send him a drink. And a wink.
Er… just do what comes naturally, because you’re completely equipped. Good luck!
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