Fated Lovers?
Dear Elsa,
Since I lost my sweetheart Nikky in 1995, I have not been able to fall in love with any other woman. Nikky and I were perfect for each other. We were both artists and vegetarians, and we both loved charity. She was the only person patient enough to read all my writings and study all my artworks, and I did the same for her. We were like soul mates.
Can I find anyone like Nikky again?
Signed,
Wistfully Wishing
ps I don’t believe in astrology.
Dear Wishing,
No I don’t think you will find someone like Nikky again. There is only one Nikky! But I’m not sure why you’d want to meet someone like her anyway. Because as you can see, it did not work out!!
I’m sorry, but I don’t think the universe screws up. If you and Nikky were meant to be together, you would be. And I’m not trying to be insensitive. I’d just like to get you unstuck if it’s possible.
Your chart shows a man with a very idealistic love nature. And as you can see, you’ve gone and made Nikky the “ideal” when she’s been gone for ten years! Well lemme tell you something. An ideal partner is one who is there! But you’re not going to find one of those with Nikki on your mind! You’re going to have to resolve this.
I think you can do it, if you change your perspective. But you’d have to open your mind to allow some new ideas in. How about this one: the idea that the universe is acting in your best interest, all of the time? Do you really think you met the love of your life ten years ago, and that’s it for you? I don’t think the universe is that cruel. I just can’t believe such a thing.
Can you quit looking for Nikky? Look for love instead and I think you’ll be surprised what you find.
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