Dear Single,

Looking at your chart, I don’t see you going without a relationship for long. You’re simply more happy and comfortable when you’re partnered up. And I am not trying to minimize your pain. But since you’ve had this same scenario constellate twice in a row… well that is a lot of information and you only need to use it.

At this point, I’d suggest you lose the “victim” position completely and take responsibility and control for your love life. By that I mean, forget about feeling something has been done to you, or perpetrated against you. Instead of seeing it as a betrayal, understand you’ve made choices and screwed up twice here. So make a vow to yourself that you’ll keep your eyes open next time.

For example, if you meet a guy and he talks about his ex all the time, then run for the hills!!! Sounds pretty simple, huh? And can you see how this puts you in the position of power? You can be in the land of “been there, done that” around this issue at any time. So why not today?

Good luck.
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