Bi-Sexuality?

July 30th, 2005 @ 4:27 am by Elsa

Dear Elsa,

I’m only 15 years old, so I might be too young to ask a question on here. I hope you take me seriously.

My best friend told me he’s bisexual and has been dating a guy 6 years older. My friend is underage, yet doesn’t care about it. I, for one, am constantly worried about it. I’d like to think of this as a little ‘phase’ that he’ll have, but I’m not exactly sure. I admit that I did have feelings for him and they’ve grown stronger with our friendship.

Should I take my friend’s bisexuality seriously, or is this a phase that my friend will grow out of?

Signed,
Not Sure

aquarius brianDear Not Sure,

First, fifteen is plenty old enough to ask a question on here. I’m not sure it’s old enough to be having sex! But I take you very seriously and besides that, I admire the hell out of you. I admire your attitude and your candor but most of all, I’m impressed with the quality friend you must be, that a pal could confide something like this to you.

That said, I highly doubt he’s going to outgrow his bi-sexuality. He’s far more likely to grow INTO it. You know. It’s probable your friend is gay, and you are an important factor in his liberation.

Know why? Because he’s out there experimenting and you’re letting him. You’re not judging him. Everyone should be so lucky to have a friend like you.

I hope you walk away from reading this, feeling proud. You’re fine person, a stout friend, and as rare as can be.

Good luck.

~~
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