Cleaning House – Husband With a Virgo Moon
Dear Elsa,
My husband and I are about to celebrate our 18th wedding anniversary. We met when we were young, and he was already extremely messy. He’s still a packrat, but over the years I’ve managed to get some order over parts of the house.
Still, the furniture in the living room and bedroom have not been rearranged since we bought the house in 1998. Arghh! I love our home, but I long to shake it up now and then. We keep our own separate work rooms that we keep as clean or messy as we respectively desire. But, it’s not enough.
I want to clean the extremely cluttered garage and patio, and take a chance and rearrange some furniture. How do I work with his messy ways, and manage his utter distate of change of any kind?
Going crazy,
Wife of Mad Scientist
Dear Wife of Mad Scientist,
I get it. You each have your own space designated but you want to expand
and tidy and update the common areas of your common home. Well let me ask you this: which of these do you want most? Do you want to rearrange the furniture, clean the garage, or clear the patio? I would choose one of the three because this is obviously not a priority to your husband.
“Honey, lets clear out the garage, rearrange the furniture and clear the patio.”
Yeah, riiiiiiiiight.
I think you can motivate him, but you’ll have an easier if you prioritize in advance and break the tasks up into manageable pieces.
I’m also a big fan of “if you want something done, do it yourself.” Just jump in and when you run into something too heavy, tell him, “I need your help.”
Use those words exactly, okay? Because your husband has a Virgo Moon. It’s very hard for Virgo to turn down someone who needs their specialized help.
Good luck!
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