Dear Love,

You do not sound moody or irrational to me and while feelings are transient and do change, I don’t think they should ever be ignored.

Now unfortunately I can’t tell you precisely what is going on with you and this man but it sounds as if you are feeling some trepidation and perhaps what you’ve got here is a red flag? Perhaps as the real life meeting draws near, what is revealing is you are not as compatible with this man as you once thought. And there is no way I can tell you this for sure but I can tell you this much:

If it is a red flag, you are bound to see more of them so if this starts to happen I would absolutely pay attention because a man who goes “beyond your comfort level” is just that. He is a man who goes beyond a woman’s comfort level and when you are with a man like that, as far as I am concerned you are in danger.

I would also add if it is him who is telling you that you are “moody and irrational” I would certainly begin to rethink this if I were you.

Good luck.

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Dear Elsa,

I know. Another sex topic but you can’t say I’m not consistent. Plus Scorpio moon is coming.

What common aspects in our charts would signal meeting a new lover?

All the yearly horoscopes say for Virgo’s this is the year for you to find new love etc. How do they know that? Obviously not everyone in that sign is going to fall in love. So.. it must be certain planets knocking boots with other planets and passing over your chart right?

Wondering Virgo

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There are plenty of things talk about but what interests me most at the moment is the current (and coming) oppositions between Saturn in Virgo and planets in Pisces. I am going to try to make a video later today on this topic but for now I have this story.

The other day HQ and I found out the emails (Virgo) between us have been disappearing (Pisces) for weeks. We found a workaround and yesterday he mailed me to ask how I have been faring in my crisis. I have been telling him all along but the mails have been lost so he was catching up, I guess.

“Is it excruciatingly painful or are you (relatively) detached now?” he asked.
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Dear Virgo,

I don’t like to decide what is normal. If you tend to be a person who does not easily trust then to be un-trusting is normal for you.

Now you’ve got a difficult chart and I think this is reflected in your relationship. Because you are having great sex with a man who is sweet and understanding yet you are suffering and this is the thing to investigate and try to alter. Judging from what you’ve written he’s done nothing to betray your trust or arouse your suspicion so where is this coming from?

You don’t have the chart of someone who is particularly paranoid but you do have the chart of someone with a high sex drive, probably interested in psychology, prone to worrying and get this: fantasizing.

And I don’t KNOW but if I was going to guess… considering his planets are opposite yours I would imagine it possible you have his motivation confused with your own. You are a born investigator see. So are you in the relationship for love… or something else?

And I am not judging this so don’t take it that way. What I am suggesting is that you are a very complex young woman so just keep asking questions like this one and you’re going to be fine.

Good luck.

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Now about the Virgo vs Pisces perspectives regarding my blog, after I had my ice cream, I realized there was no sense asking either of them anything! Because they’d both be absolutely right even when telling me opposite things:

Here’s the Virgo…

“What do you think about my blog here lately? How’s it coming across? Is it coming across? You know how I am. I’m losing track again. I have no idea what I’m doing.”

“Yeah it’s good. But you could do this and this and this and it would be even better. Plus I noticed this other thing and a few other things over here…”

And this feedback would be excellent. It would be completely correct.

Now here’s Pisces talking, the sign opposite Virgo:

“Your blog?” There would be some hesitation. “It’s good. I think it’s very good. I wouldn’t worry about it if I were you. Whoever is supposed to get it will get it and whoever isn’t won’t…”

“So it makes sense, then?”

“Well it makes sense to me. I have no idea if it makes sense to other people. Most people don’t understand anything anyway. They understand what they want to understand the way they want to understand it, so they’ll read whatever they want to read regardless of what you write. So I wouldn’t worry about it at all. It really doesn’t matter what you do.”

See?

Do you have both Virgo and Pisces people in your life?

Thanks to astrology, I’ve been blogging daily for nearly six years. Once, twice, three times a day. So by now I’ve written thousands of blogs and it usually goes okay. But sometimes I write something really stupid. I just miss the boat somehow, or I write something that is stunningly inappropriate. Or sometimes I post something no one understands or can relate to at all!

And I don’t necessarily know it. Courtesy Saturn Neptune, it is notoriously hard for me to track myself so sometimes I ask my friends for feedback.

‘Was that understandable?” I ask. “Do you think that made any sense? I’m not sure that could be read or not. Is that something people can relate to, or did I fall off the page..?”

And yesterday I was wondering these type things about what I’ve been posting lately. And I was going to ask a Pisces friend what she thought. But I realized every time I ask her something like this, she tells me that whatever I wrote was fine! Every time! Hmm…

It hit me, she’s not really meant to be a critic. If I want to hear there are no problems… if I want fairy dust, then she’s the person to query. But if I want someone who is going to discern and pick my work apart, well I’ve got to find a Virgo, don’t I?

So I have a Virgo. HQ is a Virgo and further he is involved in this blog. So I thought about asking him but realized almost immediately I didn’t really want to know. Not at the moment anyway. I decided I’d rather stay in la la land, so I just had some ice cream and forgot about it.

When people contact you, are the looking for a fairy? Or a reality check?