This is in response to Dr. Z - The Zodiac Master on Love and Rot:

I remember the day the soldier’s son realized I loved his father as-is. I’d been writing him for months and months and months and finally said something that indicated acceptance of the more difficult or challenging aspects of his nature.
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The soldier referred to me today as, “Elsa P, the un-catch-able catch”. He dreams of our showing up at our wedding… and it not going off due my cold feet. This is a perfect expression of the sky right now by the way. Venus is conjunct Uranus in Pisces… I don’t know how you get more “runaway bride” then that and it’s in aspect to Saturn… that would be the fear, or the self control that prevents acting on the impulse to escape.

I really do think we are going to marry but who knows how or when. We seem to have so little to say about what happens in our lives. This is both of us, I mean. For example when I had a baby, never in a million years did I expect it to turn out the way it has and I surely never thought I’d see the soldier again - I had counted him dead for 20 years at least!
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In another manifestation of Venus Uranus (detached and odd) and Venus Neptune (ignore)… this conversation was from some months ago:

“You realize that virtually every woman you have ever slept with reads my blog don’t you? What do you think about that?” I asked the soldier. “I think it’s remarkable. They’ll all found you. All of them.”

“I don’t know what to think of it,” he said. “I don’t know why they’d be interested, no one has ever really liked me but you.”

I shrugged and looked at him. I am pretty sure the look on my face wanted to hold him responsible for this.
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I got this picture (from the soldier) in my email today, he says it’s of us. On the Neptune front, it’s quite astonishing to me how his name in my email gives me a thrill… it just makes me dizzy with love but really that’s a Uranus in the 7th (I have), Venus in aspect to Uranus (he has) picture.

People who have things like this in their chart have simply got to have some oddity and for us, this is it.

There is another striking thing about the picture… I can’t really afford to get him by him, can I? We are learning this is regards to our fights.

But my main point is you read how Uranus in the 7th is prone to divorce. This is true but there are other ways it can play and you are looking at one of them.

The soldier was yelling, he’s got that crew cut now you know and I was taken aback.

“Oh my God,” I said. “You are a butchy, butchy man. How did I end up with someone so butchy?”

He made a butchy noise and gesture and I gasped.

“P! What do you mean what are you doing with a man like me? I am an extreme man, you are an extreme woman. We’re attracted like moths to a flame.”

I gasped again but he’s right and that right there is the opposition. It is also evidence of my Uranus in the 7th - I am shocked at my partner. He has Venus in aspect to Uranus so I imagine it goes both ways.

Do you ever look at your lover and wonder what the hell?

“I’m a steely-eyed killer,” the soldier said happily.

“Yeah? What are you doing with a piece of fluff like me?”

“Oh, I don’t know. I can’t help it. I’m like Judge Roy Bean and you’re… what was her name?  You’re the gal he loved. He just loved her to no end. Lillie Langtry,  that was her name.  Yeah, you’re Lillie and I’m Roy. He was crazy about her and she was…”

He waved his hands around to indicate dingbat-ness and I stared.

“She was an actress,” he said. “You’re like an actress too.”

Continue reading Voice Of Venus In Aspect To Uranus: Judge Roy Bean

The soldier and I getting ready for the gym this morning, or rather I’d been ready for 3 hours and him? Well…

“Okay, P,” he said as he was putting on his shoes. “After this I have to go out to the truck and get my gym bag, what do you think of that?”

“I try not to think about it. You are a slow ass Taurus and we go when you’re ready if you ever get ready… just tell me when we can go, I don’t want to think about it.”

“Well good. Because no one needs a bouncy ass gazelle when they’re trying to get out of the mud hole do they? You don’t even get in the mud so what do you know?”

“Don’t know, don’t want to know, just grunt when you’re ready.”

(This is what it’s like when you have Uranus tied up with Venus. You wind up with an alien one way or the other)

People have been remarking and in some cases complaining about my crooked lipstick for about 20 years which is about how long I have been wearing lipstick. I thought I had this resolved for the most part a few years back. The AMF said I was cured for example and I should no longer be mentioning it on my (other) blog so I thought that was that. But apparently not. Apparently I am still askew because last night the soldier mentioned this.

The soldier this is, who has not got a fashion conscious bone in his body. The soldier who states he has been wearing the same clothes since he was 12 years old and says that he sees no problem with this.

“Yeah, I see you like that sometimes and I laugh about it on my way to work. That’s my, P!” he said brightly.
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Okay here’s a problem for y’all. I’ve got a gal trying to break a long-standing pattern of opting to go with Danger Boy. You know the type. He’s got an edge, might be moody, definitely non-committal, intermittently withholding, secretive, etc.

Her problem is pervasive and multifaceted. For example, she has Venus in Aquarius trine a Moon Uranus conjunct in Libra which is clearly going to resist commitment so choosing these boys serves in that fashion.

Beyond that, she has Mars in Aries opposite Pluto in Libra so she drawn to the intense challenge and perhaps the pain as well but here is what she’s asking:

Has anyone out there ever successfully weaned off Danger Boy in his various forms and established a stable partnership?  If so, please us how… and if you’re inclined, what drove you to change your ways?

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“It seems to be working out in Denver,” I said to the soldier.  “I told you once you cleared your birthday it would be a whole other situation. Solar return, have you noticed?”

“I have noticed.”

“Yeah, in 2003 you told me you could never live in Colorado. Never, ever, not in a million years.  I worry about that some. I am sorry you have to be somewhere you don’t want to be.”

“I am where I want to be, P.”

“Oh yeah but you know what I mean.”

Continue reading Mercury in Aries vs Mercury in Libra With Mars Involved: “I’ll Be Mad, Mad, Mad.”