Thanks everyone for your good wishes.  We appreciate it!  We’re both happy as hell and I’ll tell you more as soon as we’re settled down.

I know most would be curious as to why I am writing on my blog the day after I got married and it’s simple. The soldier has to leave tomorrow (or Monday it we are extra lucky) and he has some things to do that require complete attention before he goes so he’s doing that and I am doing this and he’s done we’ll go back to hibernating until he has to leave.
Continue reading Thanks and On The Venus Pluto Front… Filling The Void With A Scorpio Love (?) Story

I’ll try not to go too crazy on this topic but fact is my family has a lot of planets in early Cardinal so you may see a slew of posts. I was writing about those songs I was listening to on the way to Salina… this led me to the legacy topic because if the soldier’s son gets the songs, this would be an inheritance, see?

Most of you also realize the soldier and I are having the Saturn return of our relationship, this time opting to commit (marry) after the tragic &(*($% up the first time around.

Continue reading The Shadow Side Of Love… Pain

As Saturn in Libra squares Pluto in Capricorn in the coming months the reality (Saturn/Capricorn) of the shadow side (Pluto) of love (Libra) is going to be your face.  Currently Mercury in Libra squaring is squaring Pluto which opens the door for a dialogue on this topic.

With Pluto involved the deeper you go, the deeper it leads you so I won’t hope to cover this in any way but I can provoke your thinking as someone did mine when they asked the soldier a beguiling question: “So who wants to get married more, you or her?”

Continue reading The Shadow Side Of Love (A Topic Coming Into Vogue) In 2009, 2010

When Venus squares Pluto old lovers come back. The climb right out of their graves or their trash cans as I like to say, this happens without fail but the Venus Pluto square in October is especially notable.

It’s notable because Venus is in Virgo, the sign of it’s detriment and it is conjunct Saturn and it is square Pluto. Talk about LOVE KARMA. If you’ve got any skeletons I’d be watchin’ my back ’round this time.

Continue reading Transit Watch: Talk About Your Love Karma… Venus Conjunct Saturn Square Pluto: October 13 -15, 2009

When Venus aspects Pluto in the sky, invariably old lovers (and women) come back from the dead one way or the other. Sometimes there is contact.  Other times someone just surfaces in your psyche like the guy I went to visit in Michigan in A Jupiter Tale For Y’all.

Today I am bugged out by Mary who died a number of years ago. It is a good story if you don’t know it - A Fish Tale but in whatever case, Mary comes around now and then and when she does I feel very pressured to acknowledge her.
Continue reading Venus Opposite Pluto: For Mary

I know a gal, she owns an upscale bed and breakfast type place with an art gallery attached. She is exudes the Venusian qualities and is having trouble leaving comments on my blog. Apparently they are going into the black hole that may or may not be the spam filter but in whatever case, she’s having Neptune problems figuring it all out and believe me, I meant well when I decided to help her out.

Continue reading Pluto In Aspect To Venus And Mars In Taurus - “Sorry For Drowning You In Crap, Art Gallery Lady!!”

I found out today that yesterday’s difficult conversation was held for the benefit of a third party!

That is the person is on the phone with me had their new beau in the room with them to be shocked at how horrible I am no doubt.

::smiles::

Just another Venus Pluto triangle, I hope the guy got laid.

“She’s so awful, here let’s go to bed you poor thing…”

::rolls eyes::

I favor interactions that are one on one and tend to shun everything else. Liz Greene states that triangular relationships cannot be avoided and I agree. I mean, if you and your man discuss his ex-lover (or yours) that’s a triangle. When I consult with a client about their man, that’s a triangle too. But as far as for outright competing for a man against another woman or other blatant forms of 3-way relationships, I do avoid them like the plague.
Continue reading Venus Square Pluto and Relationship Triangles

Rob writes re” Manipulation…

“Have you ever had the experience where someone tries to do the above without your consent, though? It happens to me all the time; and I can’t get past the fact that I just don’t like it.”

Rob… it’s an interesting question. Personally, if I am having sex with a person, I am signing up and hoping to be manipulated. If I go therapy, same thing. I want to impacted. Outside of that, I have an inner circle of friends and there are criteria they all meet:
Continue reading Boundaries Prevent Unwanted Psychic Surgery… Today’s Venus Square Pluto

Well this is par for the course. I start a story with no idea of what I am going to say and invariably it becomes far more involved and demanding than I intend. Apparently I like these sticky problems, if not I suppose I’d make an outline.  These are writer problems and the challenge suits my Mars Mercury conjunction.

My current problem with the Vid story is this:  There is a (strong) psycho-sexual component to this story so should I include it?  If so the how, when and why?

Continue reading Astrology And The Challenge Of Writing About Everyone’s Un-Comfort Zone - Children And The Psycho-Sexual World