Dear Mother,

You’re scared and I understand why but no I don’t think you are going to wind up hurt and alone. Venus is well aspected and elevated in your chart. It is also trine Jupiter (love from a foreigner) so I can easily see this working out. However your concern is really only the tip of an iceberg that I think you’d be well advised to address.

That is, you appear to be buying the idea that having been left by a man with your children, you are somehow damaged goods. In reality, it is just the opposite. You are a responsible person taking care of your children regardless and I feel you should hold your head high. And I am telling you unequivocally, with Venus in Leo the 10th house, if you do this you will command respect.

On the other hand if you hold your head down and buy this other story (a Jupiter word) about your value (Venus), you may just have a self-fulfilling prophesy on your hands so please…

Work to replace your fear with the confidence you earned. And if this man lets his family talk him out of his love… well he’s not the man for you, is he? Try not to worry. I think you are going to be all good one way or the other. And here’s another tip and Jupiter trick:

Change your perspective! Are you lowly because you’ve been married, or he is lowly because he hasn’t? See how this is?

With Venus in the 10th, you are prone to judging love. Instead seek (Jupiter) real (10th house) love (Venus) from the heart (Leo) and you’ll have no problems at all.

Much love and good luck.

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pictured: Venus and Mars with Cupid, BORDONE, Paris Bordone, 1559-60 Oil on canvas, 118 x 130,5 cm Galleria Doria-Pamphili, Rome