Dear Venus,

You’re not stupid. Five years is a long time to spend with someone just to have it end. I am sure you are hurting and most any of us would look for some kind of salve to ease this kind of pain. It’s human nature.

But if you want to know if you are going to end up with this man who is half your age and half way around the world… and have it work out? Well I would have to say, the odds are very, very low as to be almost non-existent. I am sorry!

I understand he is handsome and he is sweet and I am glad he’s come into your life to provide some respite and some form of escape. But I do think ultimately, you are going to find this new relationship probably cannot be sustained and you will have to back and deal in the here and now with the loss of your last relationship and the astrology supports my theory.

You have Venus in Sagittarius (foreigners) conjunct Neptune (fantasy) so there is your ability to desire to escape via the dreamy Moroccan, but you also have Pluto (death) transiting the end of your 7th house (relationships). And though you’re getting there, you’re not quite done processing the loss of this relationship. So both these things are working simultaneously, and there is nothing wrong with that. But are you going to be Mrs. Morocco? I don’t think so.

Good luck.

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Dear Feeling,

Your relationship history reflects your chart (or vice versa). Here’s what I see:

With Venus conjunct Neptune, you are prone to pining. Long distance relationships are ideal for this. The loved one is off at a distance where you don’t have to deal with them in actual human form. You know. They are always clean and sweet smelling. Their hair is always perfect, their legs are shaved… when in reality it is often anything but.

Further, you have Saturn square your Venus Neptune and here again the long distance thing serves. Because Saturn restricts and limits. Venus is love, of course and you see the result. You are deprived (Saturn) of actual love and relationship (Venus), which is something you idealize and yearn for (Neptune).

Further, you’re an Aquarius with Mars in Aquarius so you want lots of space. And you notice that even when your girlfriend is at hand, she is kept at a distance for five years!

So when you consider this alongside the facts of your life… well I am not sure that you’re not getting exactly what you want. Because come on… if you wanted a real relationship, you would find a girl in your town! And you’d find one who had healed from her last breakup! You get the idea.

You can work all this in a different way but I’m not sure you really want to. Your independence, lack of responsibility and feelings of divine discontent may be far too attractive for you to make the adjustments that would alter this. So to answer your question, yes you are matchable. Whether you actually want to be matched is another question entirely.

Good luck.

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