This is from 2008, in honor of the current sky where Venus in Leo opposes Neptune and Jupiter in Aquarius which is very similar to the energy in my natal chart. The text below is from February 2009 and requires no update.

I claimed (quite correctly) that at least 40 men had proposed to me in my life and Bella asked on Venus Neptune Getting Married:

What is the astrology for that level of proposal mania?

I stated I had to dodge weddings as if they were bullets and I am reposting this because it takes on a new meaning when you have the back story.
Continue reading 1 Minute Astrology - Venus, Neputne, Love And Delusion: People Who Want To Marry You (In Droves) When They Don’t Even Like You…

‘Well now we’ve got two dates and have to choose,” I told the soldier.

“How’d that happen?”

“Well I came across one but I asked other people for advice and another astrologer emailed me with a different date.  His work was compelling.”

“It doesn’t matter, either day you can run out the church.”

I had no answer for that.

I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!
update- there were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A - What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

“That was a nice thing to say, I guess I’ll marry you after all,” I said.

He laughed. “I’m not holding my breath.”

“Oh come on. You know I’m going to marry you, I’m just waiting for you to give the word. You know you have criteria you think should be met so I’m just waiting for you to hit your marks.”

“Pretty good cover story, P. I always say, best have your cover story ready.”

This is what I have to avoid. I got married once, a few days later I called my old friend, Leon who I met when I was 19.

Leon and I ran together with our various partners for 10 years solid before I left the desert. We traveled all over together but we were even closer than that. We lived 90 minutes apart and were in the habit of spending every other weekend at the other person’s house. It was very tight friendship.
Continue reading 7th House Uranus… “Who Am I Really?”

I do have feelings about being proposed to 40 + times and for the record, that is not an exaggeration. If anything the estimate is conservative, I could almost sell bumper stickers, “I Proposed To Elsa Too”. If Scott is reading this, he is laughing because he knows it’s true!

Anyway, I don’t like this and Nick Lowe has a song the perfectly describes my feelings about it. I posted the lyrics below and you can see the aspects in my chart brilliantly described. Who but Mars Mercury is going to make a “knife out of a notion”?
Continue reading How I Feel About Being Proposed To 40 Times (At Least)

“I feel bad. I just don’t how to get married. How are we going to do it?” I asked the soldier.

“Well it’s like this. We stand in front of a guy and he says, do you soldier, take this woman, Elsa P to be your lawfully wedded wife. And then I say, I do. And he says to you, do you Elsa P, take this man, soldier to be your lawfully wedded husband and you say, well just a minute. Wait a minute, I think we’d better talk about this…”

I didn’t laugh because it sounds just like me and I think it’s tragic.
Continue reading Commitment Phobia… It’s No Joke!

Astrologer, Madeline asks:

“Is there a wedding happening???? sorry to be nosy.”

I presume you mean the soldier and I? Yes, we a planning to get married as soon as we can provided he can get me to do it. We plan to get married when he gets vacation but he’s not holding his breath and I can’t reassure him because I really am broken on this front. Things just come out of me and I swear it’s not intentional!
Continue reading Is Venus Neptune Getting Married? It’s Not Like She’d Know

The soldier and I, continuing on the phone last night…

“Well are you going to marry me then, hen we get to Tombstone? Are you P?” the soldier asked last night.

“Well yeah. Yeah, I think I am. You should probably have some valium on hand though. Something. Jeez, I don’t know. Getting married is not the easiest thing in the world for me to do. It seems to be almost impossible.”
Continue reading Getting Married, Provided I Don’t Pass Out

I got this picture (from the soldier) in my email today, he says it’s of us. On the Neptune front, it’s quite astonishing to me how his name in my email gives me a thrill… it just makes me dizzy with love but really that’s a Uranus in the 7th (I have), Venus in aspect to Uranus (he has) picture.

People who have things like this in their chart have simply got to have some oddity and for us, this is it.

There is another striking thing about the picture… I can’t really afford to get him by him, can I? We are learning this is regards to our fights.

But my main point is you read how Uranus in the 7th is prone to divorce. This is true but there are other ways it can play and you are looking at one of them.