Some people get a clear message that another person is not interested or no longer interested but they just can’t or don’t or won’t parse it even when the message is repeated and consistent over time. I guess you could say they deny rejection. They know they have been rejected they just think the person is mixed up or due to change their mind.

Others imagine rejection when it doesn’t exist and some see rejection as a challenge to be accepted and raise the level of their pursuit.

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Full Moon, Lunar Eclipse aside, with Venus (in it’s detriment) conjunct Saturn and Mercury in Virgo, I am getting nothing but news of people getting reality (Saturn) shoved down their throats. This is limited, there is not enough of that, you’ve got to work harder, longer and for less… in short, you have got to clutch it up and oh by the way - NO WHINING!

We can hope for some relief via the lunar eclipse but this Virgo situation is serious. I found myself calling the one person I speak to frequently and while she did not pick up, my intention was to either find out she was doing ok (a spot of good news for my inner circle) or alternately to make sure all the bad news was in because I am telling you it is not a good day to have your phone ring!

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The soldier and I were talking about an old love of mine…

“I have been thinking about him lately and wondering what he came up with. Do you suppose he’s told himself a story about how awful I am? Or do you think he sees it in another light?”

“He’s probably told himself a story,” he said.

“Yeah, I think he might have. I think he may have a whole story constructed by now and then if becomes reality even if it’s not real. Why do people do that?”

“It’s a defense.”

“Against what?”
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“Oh, it’s terrible,” I said, “Vidroid got rejected by a girl at school today. A girl he likes.”

The soldier groaned.

“Yeah, it was bad. Apparently his friend was trying to fix him up. He said, hey. Vidroid likes you. Do you like him? And the girl stood there. Er… no.”

“Gah.”

“Yeah, he really felt bad. He was decimated. He feels like shit… he feels horrible.”

Continue reading Astrology And Children: Sun Conjunct Saturn @ 8 Years Old - Rejected By A Girl

“I wouldn’t marry you, right?”

“No. You said no.”

“I did. And I gave you no explanation whatsoever. I didn’t say no, you’re too ugly. Or no, I don’t love you. I didn’t say no, I don’t want to marry you because I want to marry someone else.”

“No, you just said no, man. No. That was all you said.”

“Unbelievable. And you didn’t ask me why?”

“No. I asked you if you wanted to get married, you said no and I figured I had to accept it. So after that I left and went and did what any normal man would do.”

“What’s that?”

“I got drunk and fell asleep in a bathtub.”

“Oh.”

“What else am I going to do? I was distraught. I had a bad night, P. My friends still talk about it. To this day, they bring that up. They all know about Elsa P, that’s for sure. My family too. They were there. They all saw the whole thing. Me crying in my beer because you won’t marry me.”

I laughed. ‘What did they say?’

“Well they felt sorry for me, I’m sure. Poor soldier. But they also thought it was funny. I mean they know me as well as you do. They know I’m a pain in the ass. They know how arrogant I am. You aren’t telling them anything new. And I’m sure they thought it was somewhat funny to have some girl kick my ass like that. They must have. Because after that they all wanted to meet you. In fact they insisted upon meeting you and they wouldn’t take no for an answer. Some family I’ve got, huh?”

How do you handle rejection?

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