There are parts of the personality which a person will tend to ignore, project or simply be unaware of. Planets in the 12th house give reliable information as do planets in the 7th.

Planets touched by Neptune or placed in Libra give clues.

Anyone else got ideas about this?

This is from January, 2008. My friend, Ben, a progressive Aquarius rising with Uranus on the descendant opposing finds out what he has projected, integrates it and becomes even more liberated.

Update… this stuff will come front and center with Saturn in Libra. It costs you when you give your qualities to the other. Also, I mention in here that my life was in tatters at the time of the recording and it was. You can see I have something beyond a mere poker face. Jeez.

Psychopaths are a pet topic on this blog. This can be attributed to the extreme nature of the diagnosis correlating with the extreme nature of my natal chart. (tag - psychopath)

In that same vein I like to put extreme, potent, raw material on this blog at times. Times like today.
(swearing below the break)
Continue reading A No Frills Look At Falling In Love With A Psychopath

CK writes, regarding women hunting women: “I’d say…if you notice it or it happens significantly to you, it’s because it’s a part of you!”

And turns out, this exact thing came up during a conversation with a friend a few days ago…

“I don’t know about that,” I said. “For example, I attract people with problems. Maybe that’s because I know how to fix them. Maybe it’s not any different than a heart surgeon who attracts people with bad hearts. Who else is going to showing up at his office?” I asked. “And what about you? You cut hair. So you’re going to attract people with bad haircuts all the time. But does this mean your hair is bad? Maybe your hair is fine. Your hair actually is fine. I know that for a fact but you still attract a stream of people who need their hair fixed so I’m just not sure this whole thing holds water.”

Who do you attract?

Do you suffer from SAD? People with Seasonal Affective Disorder get the winter blues and I recently have become aware of how prevalent and serious this problem can be. Deprived of sunlight, people see their mood drop and it stays that way until May or so when the days get longer.
Continue reading Astrology and Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Is Leo Predisposed?

First everyone should know I have permission to write this. Some people want their problems broadcast for a variety of reasons.  First, it gives them air.  Seconds, seeing them written often shakes something loose. Third, they may get valuable feedback and fourth, they wish to serve so they donate their problem…

Continue reading Crisis, Reality And The Shadow Side Of Love: Saturn In Libra Square Pluto In Capricorn - A Case Study

From 2008 - What is the relationship between free will and pathology? Can a person opt away from what is stereotypical?

Hey all you people with oppositions in your chart, planets in Libra and heavily tenanted 7th houses… reason number 1104 to curb your propensity to project onto others…

There are people I interact with who I like and in some cases, love who routinely leave me deep disturbed. I am so disturbed I would quit interacting with them if not for the fact I like or love them. I have no idea why they disturb me so profoundly. It seems illogical and I always wonder if they are equally disturbed by me.
Continue reading Disturbing People And Being Disturbed By People: It’s Complicated

“In the 60’s they thought schizophrenia was caused by by parents, the mother, the family. Autism, too. If someone had an autistic kid if was because they were a lousy mother.”

The soldier laughed.

“Well they did think this. If was the brainy idea of the times and these poor parents.  The mothers, I mean.  They were told their kid was fine until they got hold of them.   If you’d have hugged your kid…  if you did not subconsciously hate your child, none of this would be happening.  The parents bought it for the most part for a myriad of reasons. This was accepted at the time, and there are people out there who still believe this. Yes. I know people who believe this right now, this year.  A person is schizophrenic because the family did it, they needed a scapegoat.”

Continue reading Autistic Child? Blame Mom! Schizophrenia? The Family Did It!