Continuing to discuss projection in relationships, the 7th house in astrology and a person’s shadow side. My friend, Ben, a progressive Aquarius rising with Uranus on the descendant opposing finds out what he has projected, integrates it and becomes even more liberated…

Pluto, Scorpio and the 8th house… projecting your shadow, a real life example.

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Kate’s article with comments: “What Modern Women Want: A Beta Male”

The soldier and I were talking about an old love of mine…

“I have been thinking about him lately and wondering what he came up with. Do you suppose he’s told himself a story about how awful I am? Or do you think he sees it in another light?”

“He’s probably told himself a story,” he said.

“Yeah, I think he might have. I think he may have a whole story constructed by now and then if becomes reality even if it’s not real. Why do people do that?”

“It’s a defense.”

“Against what?”
Continue reading The Relationship Fails - Now Whose Fault Is That?

I made a video awhile back about how to discredit someone. All you have to do is say they are a drunk and that’s it! Walk into the room and everyone looks you up and down and thinks, “Here comes the alcoholic”. Doesn’t have to be true and I’d know because this is exactly what happened to me. This was “first handshake” before I even shook a hand when I first starting meeting with the task force.

Further I did not know this had happened for at least 2 or 3 weeks which meant people were talking to my hologram (Elsa the presumed alcoholic) and boy did I flip out when I found out. Considering I’m not a drinker, I was STUNNNNNED.
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I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!
update- there were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A - What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

Jessica writes on the “Why Can’t I Find Love” blog:

Elsa, I have watched your videos on projection and this stuff is really important to me because I’m a Libra with Pluto transiting my 7th. I have this haunting feeling that “reflecting love” figures largely for me but I can’t put my finger on an example. Do you think you could give me an example or a synonym for that phrase about what you mean?

Jessica - Sure. People who deflect all the time, deflect all the time. In an effort to keep the ick from getting on them… the ick being anything they are not comfortable with they throw it back on the other person. I can use the soldier and I for an example because we are both equally loud… and for that matter, aggressive. So say we get in an argument and we’re both yelling. If I were projecting it would sound like this:

Continue reading Astrology And Relationships: Love And Projecting Your Shadow With Pluto In The 7th House

If you ever want to discredit someone…

A couple weeks ago I did a bunch of blog about projection and the 7th house. (tag - projection) A few people commented to say they were confused as to exactly what projection was so I’m back with a classic example.

There is a gal around here (Greeley, Colorado) going on trial for the murder of another gal, her lover’s wife. Shawna Nelson had an affair and eventually a baby with a married man. He broke up with her 2 years into this thing which prompted Shawna (who was also married) to show up at his wife’s work (Heather Garraus) as she was leaving and do (and say) this:
Continue reading Regarding Projection: A Real Life Example… Love Triangle Results In Public Execution

I have a (projected) 7th house Uranus. (1 Minute Astrology - Psychology, The 7th House And Projection In Relationship) That means I think I am normal… the partner is odd.

The soldier and I on the phone tonight:

“But wait a minute,” I said. ‘You mean I’m the crazy one? I thought you were the obviously crazy one.”

“No, we’re both crazy. It’s both of us.”

“You’ve got to be kidding me. I thought I was pretty sane. The way you go yelling around?”

“Between the two of us, I am the sane one. I am the sanest for sure,” he said.

“Oh for crying out tears. It is interesting but hard to believe. I think you’re the crazy one. The way you make it sound we’re both off and society would flush us both.”

Continue reading I Hate Being Informed Like This…

Now this is interesting. And I am not trying to pimp myself. If I wanted to pimp myself, I have had 5000 blogs in which to do it and have not bothered so…

Avery writes on the Hiding in Plain Sight / Hologram Video:

Funny you should post about this today, Elsa… After the MOST EXCELLENT reading you gave me on Saturday (readers, if you’re considering requesting a consultation, you really can’t go wrong!), it occurred to me that your phone presence in real time gives a completely different impression from the persona made up of your blog and your comment voice and your videos. It was a little unnerving to realize how much of you was just a projection in my own head. Not that I thought you were an alcoholic or anything.

Very cool that you’re addressing this very subject today!
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