Today I got tip from a client because she pulled a big coup in her life.  She said it was me not her who did the good thing and I had to laugh because I have done this same thing.

Some months ago I had some “push” or uptick in business and I told HQ and the Mechanic that it was because one of the readers here. I gave this gal total credit and had not a thought otherwise so I was stunned when the Mechanic wrote back to say very politely  that I may be overstating her contribution. Huh?

I realized he had a point.  The 8000 posts on this blog probably have a lot to do with why people hire me but that does not mean I did not get an energetic push from this gal because I believe I did.

Continue reading Who Did The Good Thing? Scorpio / 8th House Mashed With Neptune

Sorry for the phrasing of the title of this post. You’d think I could think of something more inspired but words fail.

By bad Pluto, I mean have you ever been stuck in a room or a situation with a nasty Scorpio? It’s no secret I favor Scorpio but I have met some nasty Plutonians in my time and when it happens it’s a true horror. It’s been awhile since I’ve written about this but I know I recalled one of my experiences and I am pretty sure I answered a couple of advice questions on this topic over the years but do you know this feeling?  It’s like they are consuming you, willfully and consciously.

Who can relate… and as an aside, do we have any Scorpios willing to cop to indulging themselves in this kind of behavior?

Dear Elsa,

I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?

What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?

Curious
United States

Continue reading Open Question: Can Scorpio / Plutonian Intense Relationships Last Or Do They Die By Their Nature?

A lot of people clicked back to read the year ago post about the 8th house and the shadow today.  They made remarks which prompted me to go back and read it myself. satori does the year ago posts now so I have no idea what is coming up on those but I saw that I wrote for whoever might understand what I was talking about understanding that not might be everyone so I’ve decided to try this again.

Continue reading Surviving Your Relationship With (Or As) A Sensitive Type

I wish we could have a movie of the month club but can’t see how it could be done. We can compile a list of movies one would associate with each of the planets though so let’s give it a whirl starting with Scorpio, Pluto and the 8th house.

These movie picks should involve sex and psychology… perhaps betrayal, double cross, you get the idea. Please leave as many details as you can (without spoilers).
Continue reading Astrology And Movie Reviews: Scorpio, 8th House, Pluto Titles…

From 2007 - Pluto goes direct…

People got extremely involved in the Dark Heart piece, thank you! That was enormously inspiring and satisfying and I am back with my next angle.

Your comments prompted me to better define the personality I was trying to type and get insight into. One example I landed on over and over was the type of woman who finds another women to feel superior to. I used the example of a gal who might peruse the gossip pages and look at celebrity cellulite so she could feel superior.
Continue reading Dark Heart Redux: What Can We Learn From The Anti-Bitch?

Double Gemini and astrologer Claire-France Perez befriends the repulsive - Me! (recorded March, 2008)

I was discussing the What’s a Married Man To Do When A Woman Flirts With Him? post that inspired such passionate reaction with a pal. I explained I wouldn’t spend 5 minutes with a man who would flirt in a bar like that and I realize that many will read this and believe I am delusional.

That’s because they project their experience but I’ll tell you something, I am not a stupid woman.
Continue reading Couples Who Don’t Flirt Around Or Cheat On Their Partner

Revenge is interesting. I never chase it. That’s sounds arrogant but I don’t mean it that way.

The last time I acted to extract revenge was about 15 years ago and I think it was pure mistake. Prior to that, I can’t even recall trying to get revenge however I just think this is me.

I know there are others who will stop at nothing to get revenge and I don’t think they are wrong in this. I like that there are people in this world who don’t let others get away with things and I think both are I call, “agents of the universe”. You pull some crap and maybe you run into someone like me, or maybe you run into someone like them and while it seems random, I doubt it is.
Continue reading Open Question: Your Thoughts On Revenge??