We went back to the gym two days later with the same plan and no expectation of trouble. The soldier was going to work out with some weights and then swim. I still had reduced energy and we still were going to stay about an hour but had no set time. The soldier told me he’d stop by my cross trainer on his way to the pool so we’d have an idea who was where so we could finish up at roughly the same time same as prior. Once in the gym we took off in opposite direction and again we didn’t touch each other.

I don’t think the soldier and I would be mistaken as brother and sister but he could definitely be a cousin and if I were in the gym guessing, this would be my guess. I would assume he was some kind of visiting family simply because I have gone to this gym for 10 years and never ever with a man but anyway, the first problem was Coffee Date, remember him? I explored the idea of dating him after I broke up with the AMF. I was pretty distraught at the time and told him so but he said we could just go for coffee so we did.

Continue reading The Two Jealous Freaks In The Gym Together - Here Comes Coffee Date?

I was scanning last years blogs and came up with a very popular one about how people see you in the world. It’s not always accurate. If you have Neptune on the angles (obscures) or have Pisces rising like the soldier, it can go like this:

“Well I look like I’m a pussy,” he said. We were in the car.

“Oh you do not. What are you talking about?”

“Yes, I do. What are you talking about? People have thought I was a pussy my whole life.”

“Really?” Continue reading Being Mistaken For Something You’re Not: Will The Real Pervert Please Stand Up

Regarding how the various people I know are seen (or not seen), Heather, who’s been reading my blog for five years, surfaced with this:

“I also think time has something to do with it, I’ve been reading your blogs for over 5 years now, and so a lot of the people you write about I feel like I know and I keep the stories in the context that I know them in. I can picture the bar and the pool tables with the soldier dancing with the other girl, I can see Scott holed up in his apartment, again, and you yelling at the door. So sometimes these stories are like clips from a favorite film, if you don’t know the film the clip could have a completely different meaning.”

I responded to her on that blog so you can read it if you want. But then I decided to elaborate, and when it occurred to me how distinctly Saturn / Neptune this is, I decided to take it to the front of the blog so these are my (other) thoughts on this: Continue reading Commenting On The Comments - The Soldier, Scott, Ben… Me, Composite Charts and the Saturn Neptune Opposition