From 2007…

Hi Elsa, I’ve been noticing lately that when in discussions with friends their Sun sign brings out my house placement. For example my Moon is in Leo in the 4th house. When talking to my Leo sun sign friends we end up always talking about our early families: our parents , our grandparents, aunts and uncles and siblings. Same with Libra ruling my 6th House. With my Libra Sun sign friends we invariably end up talking about our health issues.

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Planets in Synastry: Astrological Patterns of Relationships (The Planet Series)

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“Love is like a stamp,” the soldier said. “If you love someone or if they love you, that’s it.”

“You think so?”

“Yep. If someone loves you, they love you, you’ve got the love stamp. And if they don’t love you, they don’t love you.”

I certainly agree with the second part of that. If someone doesn’t love you, it’s hopeless but I am not so sure about the first.

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I know there are people out there who know all about this subject and I am not one of them. I am not kidding, this is not a joke or a trick question, I want to understand this phenomena and I don’t even know what it’s called.

I am going to call it a dark heart or a black heart but I don’t know if that is the correct term. I am talking about the kind of person who is just plain nasty. I don’t know if they know they are nasty. I literally have no insight into this type person but I can describe what they do.

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Dear Elsa,

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I just left a comment on friend’s blog. “I am impressed with both your patience and your level of manners”. Manners are a Libra thing and mine are poor.

I think my manners are harmed by having Mars in Libra which only makes sense if you are missing a lobe of your brain since I could just as easy be driven (Mars) to be well mannered but as it turns out I’m not. I am driven to be “fair” so I am not sure why I turned out like other than I am from the desert.

With Mars conjunct Mercury in LIBRA in the 9th house, I think (Mercury) it is polite (Libra) if I tell you the truth (9th house) with an edge (Mars) which is of course not polite at all. ::sighs::

Are you polite? What is you Libra situation?

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Someone knows the answer to this and I hope they will offer it even if they want to do so anonymously or even via private email because I really want to know this.

Regarding Alcoholics… don’t underestimate the trickery, yesterday I sneaked an alcoholic a drink. You might say I colluded with him, I helped a fellow human being due compassion, I acted foolishly or any number of other ways my actions could be seen but what I want to know is how does the alcoholic in the story see it? What does he think of what I did?

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Who’s the least complicated, sexually? Who’s the sexiest? Who stays hard well into old age? Is sexual vitality different, astrologically between men and women?

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I got this mail today and was purely amused. And with the sky all jacked up the way it is out there… well I just thought you might be amused as well and we need all the fun we can get, don’t we? Further, maybe you can help!

So I emailed this gal and asked her if I could post her question and have you all weigh in. She said yes, so here you go:

Dear Elsa,

I hope this isnt a stupid question, but I am DESPERATE!!!! My dearest female friend is living with a man who, when he shakes my fiance”s and my brother’s hand, tickles their palm with his middle finger. What on earth does that mean? He’s done it 3 times to my fiance!!!! For the love of God HELP!!! He also likes Boy George, clothes, and rearranging the furniture.

Freaked and Confused

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So what do you think? Come on people! Help her out!

Lynne E. asks on Someone Is Weird, Just Not Sure Who:

“!f you could draw your own chart, a new one, rather than what you were born with.. what would it looks like?”

Boy, that’s a good question. It is a well known fact that as much as people complain about their lives, when pushed the wide majority of them say they would not trade their life for another person’s.
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(Flashback from Feb 2008) Imagine this: Your long suffering girlfriend who can never seem to find a man, finds a man. She’s happy, he’s happy… by God they have managed to hook up. But then you notice the phenomena. People begin to attack this gal. They undermine, thwart, block, you name it. So why is that? Whyyyyyyyyy?

Follow ups…

My Uranus transit and the slaves newly freed
My theory around freed slave and people who begrudge their happiness