Hi Elsa,

Just met an Aquarian guy. We not exactly dating we chatting, do our thing sometimes. I think he is sweet and feel very bad every time he act distant, he never said I love you just call me ‘my love’ only when he is drunk and that would be it. I sometimes say things and he gets upset and just keep quiet and decides not to respond to my emails.

I hate to be the one to always apologize when I am not the one upset. Sometimes he would lie about coming to see me, and don’t come when I call and ask he would claim he was busy, but couldn’t bother to pick up the phone and tell me.

Is it normal for a woman to apologize first every time there is a problem? Because if I don’t I am afraid he would leave it like that until maybe it runs dry. He is unpredictable and I find it very difficult sometimes to get along with his moods, most of the time I manage to get him on track but its tiring and confusing as you will never know how he will respond today. He is moody and tempered very easily, and it hurts me instead.

He is currently quiet again, he is not responding to my emails I don’t know what to do and it’s killing me. Should I keep quiet he’ll come around maybe or should I try find out what might be the problem like usual.

I don’t feel like committing to him I want things to be the way they are. But again I want to keep the sparkling between us, yet I am afraid I might end up falling for him.

Please help me I am confused.

Twelfth House Pisces Moon
South Africa