It’s no secret I am fascinated with the secret lives of men. Any woman who moves into a male barracks or goes undercover as a gay man is not messing around on this front. I am even scoping when I take my son to the skateboard park. Yes, I know girls ride skateboards however I have yet to see one at this park on a weekday afternoon so I am able to observe the boys in their habitat and I do. (has swearing) Continue reading From 2007: Are Men Jackals? Mars Energy In Nature - POLL

The soldier and I were talking about the comments on What’s a Married Man To Do When A Woman Flirts With Him?.

“They’re wild,” I said. “The women seem to think the men like being teased. That they enjoy it.”

“Men hate being teased,” he said. “Men want to get some.”
Continue reading Voice Of Mars: Men And The Art Flirting, Teasing And So Forth

Back from court today, nothing ever gets done. It occurs to me that ‘effective” is out / frowned up and ineffectual rules the day.

Astrologically this would be seen via the denial of Mars (raw male energy). I am talking about the feminization of men. I am talking about the idea everyone in the class gets a trophy, no need to compete! I made that video stating I would shoot anyone who came into my house dead on the spot and people were appalled. Apparently what is in vogue is to lie down for the rapist?
Continue reading Astrology And Mars: Our Ineffectual Society And The Feminization Of Men

satori (a Pisces) writes:

When life throws you Virgo– and you’re feeling averse to actual work– read advice lists.

I’ve just discovered a new guilty pleasure:  the lists at men’s health dot com.  Oh, the laugh out loud, squirmy goodness of it all, and not ecause they’re wrong either.  There was one particular passage prefacing a list of what not to say to women that may live on my desktop forever:  “Women freak out. Often at you. Often for no discernible reason.”

There are bits where men give advice and ones where women give advice. As far as can tell they can all be replaced by advice from the movie Field of Dreams:

Continue reading Advice From Pisces: satori On “The Moon in Virgo is besieged, caught between Saturn and Mars.”

One time, I went on a date with a double Cancer man. Cancer = home, family, roots, food.

He took me to dinner at a restaurant that was somebody’s converted home. All during dinner he told me about the family that had lived there. He told me their names, and detailed histories with dates of various happenings. He outlined the whole family tree.

He told me about the flood, the wipeout, the son taking over, and so forth. He told me where the kitchen was located in the original house before the son of the son converted it to a family business, I mean. “The one whose highchair once sat in this very room…”
Continue reading Astrology And Dating: My Dinner Date With A Cancer Man

I do like the world of men. It just reeks of… well you know.

“He asked me again if I wanted to go fishing,” the soldier said regarding a man he works with. “I told him I had a girlfriend.”

I laughed.

“Well she can come. Bring her too, he said. So then I told him we had Vidroid too.”
Continue reading The Secret Lives Of Men: Eavesdropping On Mars

“I was talking to La La Lara last night about these men,” I told the soldier. They have no idea what to say to get the girl. I really don’t think these men are so lousy, I think a lot of them really would like to get a woman and keep her but they’ve just no idea how.”

“Yeah, they want a woman. Of course they want a woman.”

“Well women don’t seem to realize this. They think men are up to all kinds of things and I think a lot of men very much want a woman and have no idea how to do this but you do. You can get the girl. You know how you told me it was hard work to get a woman?”

Continue reading Voice Of Mars - Getting (And Keeping) The Girl

For all the Aries energy out there (and square Mars to boot) here come some MAN truck stories…

“Stopped at a rest area so I could work out and as always all the truckers got on the radio and started teasing me, talking about me.”

“Yeah? Like what?”

(swearing and other possibly offensive words people use when no one is looking below break)

Continue reading Voice Of Mars: Aries, Trucking And Raw Male Energy In Nature - It’s Out There And Ready To Rock

One more blog regarding the massive dose of Aries energy over the weekend. The soldier has to maneuver his truck into this extremely difficult position to unload all that steel. It required him to circle the block in a neighborhood not meant to accommodate trucks on it’s narrow streets.

Making the turns are challenge in these conditions, perhaps you have seen a truck struggling and impatient people in cars (who do not understand physics) will wing around the truck oblivious to the idea the truck is trying very hard not to turn over and kill them with it’s 60,000 pound load. So this is what happened on the first right turn and it was harrowing.

“What’s that sound?” I asked.

“That’s the trailer wanting to turn over,” he said.

Continue reading One More Nod At The Weekend’s Overload Of Aries (Mars) Energy: Do You Take Your Loved Ones For Granted?

After suffering through and then talking through the problem in the gym that was no problem, I decided we were probably not going to have a problem because fact is the soldier is sane. I realized we’d go the gym whenever we did; eventually I would introduce him to people and that would be it. It would all work out but what about the potential of conflict in the locker room?

The soldier told me very distinctly he would confront anyone he heard talking about me and since I know they talk about me in there all the time I thought I’d better figure out how I felt about this so I talked to a pal.

“I don’t know what I am supposed to do about it,” I said. “He’s going to do whatever he wants. It’s the same as always. If he gets in a fight he gets in a fight. It’s been like this always. When we were kids, I mean. There has always been the potential he could get in a fight.”

Continue reading The Two Jealous Freaks In The Gym Together - Mars And Raw Male Energy In The Men’s Locker Room