“I like the guy and I respect him,” the soldier said. “And he ought to be glad of it because I like and respect almost no one.”

“True.”

“But he doesn’t seem to realize what a loyal bastard he’s got on his team.”

“No, I’m sure he doesn’t. He’s probably never met anyone loyal in his life and has no idea what it is.”

I actually believe that last statement. Loyalty is not only undervalued, it is damned near unheard of.

Are you loyal to anyone? Is anyone loyal to you?

Double Gemini and astrologer Claire-France Perez befriends the repulsive - Me! (recorded March, 2008)

Do you think it’s generational? Cheating is more accepted?” I asked the soldier.

“Well, yeah it’s more accepted. Back when I was young it was not accepted. Like if I’d have cheated on you, I’d have been berated for it.”

I was shocked. ‘Really?”

“Hell yeah. Speedy?” He named his other friends from back in the day. “That would not have been tolerated at all. It would have been looked down upon,” he added to clarify. “Someone would have said something.”

“I am surprised.”

“Why?”
Continue reading Cheating, Generations And A Strategy For Living As An Individual While Saturn Opposes Uranus

I was discussing the What’s a Married Man To Do When A Woman Flirts With Him? post that inspired such passionate reaction with a pal. I explained I wouldn’t spend 5 minutes with a man who would flirt in a bar like that and I realize that many will read this and believe I am delusional.

That’s because they project their experience but I’ll tell you something, I am not a stupid woman.
Continue reading Couples Who Don’t Flirt Around Or Cheat On Their Partner

Let’s say you are in an exclusive relationship of many months. How would you feel about your lover maintaining contact with an ex?

How would you see this in your chart?

“Well after you left, there are some things I never did again,” I said. “I maintained this sort of bizarre loyalty to you.”

“What do you mean?” he asked.

“Well for one thing, I never dated anyone in the military again.”

“No?”

“No. I never even came close. I just couldn’t see it. I knew it would be… bizarre. Like what am I going to do? One soldier is gone, so just plug in another?” Continue reading The Soldier and P - 46: Capricorn Faces Reality and Comes Up With a Plan