Mar
9

Leon and His Ex-Wife 2: Patterns in Relationships

leon d and elsaLeon and his ex lived several hours apart so although they didn’t see each other, they spent a lot of time on the phone. Emotionally sophisticated Leon knew she needed someone to talk to and he also knew she was not looking for anything else. No dick! I asked him how he felt about that.

“Oh, I don’t really mind,” he said. “I’d give it to her if that’s what she wanted but you know… she’s all Christian now. She teaches Sunday school and stuff. She’s really steeped in that, which is good. It’s helping her out at the moment. I think it’s good for her. And though I can’t say I’d mind getting laid, it’s probably just as well we don’t sleep together…” Continue reading Leon and His Ex-Wife 2: Patterns in Relationships

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Mar
8

Leon and His Ex-Wife: Scorpio Energy Deluxe

Astrology in Real Life

scorpioI spoke to Leon last night. He’s Libra with a Scorpio Moon conjunct Neptune and has been a friend for 25 years. When we first met, Leon and I used to really piss each other off. He’s very good at provoking and I’m very good at reacting, so there you go.

But fact is, when Henry died and I cried virtually nonstop for six months, it was Leon (and his first wife) who showed up to help me clean out his house, and continued to show long after everyone else I knew abandoned me.

So he’s that kind of “loyal”. This is his nature and he proved yet again, it when his first wife contacted him about 18 months ago, about 20 years post their divorce. She was in a crisis with her two kids after their father died. She was divorced from this guy who was abusive and controlling, but she never managed to really wrestle free of him and in fact he was mean enough to actually jack her up on his death bed. Yes. Continue reading Leon and His Ex-Wife: Scorpio Energy Deluxe


Dec
7

Astrology Describing A Person’s Energy: Do People Born Close Together Have Traits In Common?

Astrology in Real Life…

zodiac horoscope 2007Strawberry Fields comments on the astro-twin blog:

“I don’t think age has anything to do with having “much in common”, and Marly agrees…

I heartily disagree. The baby-boomers (with Pluto in Leo) have something in common the next generation with Pluto in Virgo do not. So that’s a large group of people with a slice of life in common and as you narrow the group (as the birthdays are nearer each other) the slice of life the people share, grows.

Now in the case of astro-twins, or people born very close together… when two people have most their planets in common, they are going to have similar tastes (Venus) ways of getting what they want (Mars)… ways of communicating (Mercury) and just in general living (Sun).

Further, whatever aspects dominate one chart will dominate the other and the way you interact with one of the people will be very similar (not same) to the way you interact with the other because the contacts between your chart and theirs are the same and I have three examples.

I had incredible other-worldly chemistry with the guy in the Little Mike story (Scorpio Moon) and have the same chemistry with the AMF (Aquarius Moon).

The SF guy (Scorpio Moon) and the Salesmen (Aquarius Moon) both hunt me
… and flare me up, piss me off, etc. (they activate my Mars). And there is another pair…

jupiter god symbolMy life long friend, Leon is a Libra with a Scorpio Moon. I met him when I was dating his friend who was born a few days later than him the same year… Libra with an Aquarius Moon. And I have similar experience with both of them, that is, I find them both ultra-hip.

For 25 years I have felt like a wide-eyed girl from the desert just getting introduced to life when I interact with Leon, which is similar to my experience when dating his friend years ago… the guy who got me on my first plane in “A Jupiter Story For Y’all”. They both seem just a tad out of my reach somehow as if I am mixing with royalty or some other elevated persons whose party I have crashed!

Now I think the reason people resist the idea people are similar like this is the same reason they reject astrology in general. It’s because they want to be recognized as individuals. They don’t want to feel as if a drawing on a piece of paper can describe them, however it can!

And this has nothing to do with how a person expresses their energy! As I have said many times, energy is NEUTRAL until directed. But the fact that astro-twins and others born close together (same year, same generation) have similar energy is absolutely undeniable. I mean, if this is not so, I may as well discard all these charts I have been looking at for 30+ years!

Do you notice similarities in people close in age?


Aug
2

Scorpio Moon Conjunct Neptune - Redux

Just Blathering…

taurus taj mahalRegarding the Moon Neptune in Scorpio blog, Eme remarked:

“That’s awful. What would be an example of the good side of Moon/Neptune in Scorpio?”

Eme - There is no end to the upside of Moon in conjunction with Neptune in Scorpio. First, when that happened Neptune was in Aquarius, transiting square his conjunction in Scorpio. An also his Sun in Taurus! So you see, a wipe-out on all levels was virtually inevitable. He did not just lose his home, right? He lost his possessions as well (Taurus). But generally speaking, I would say his conjunction has served him well.

This is my ex, the man who survived nearly two decades as a Special Forces soldier. How often do you think that happens? And I would have to chock this up in large part to that conjunction. There is extreme emotional sensitivity. He can suss out just about anything and while I’m at it, one of my best friends, Stevie also has this conjunction and same thing with her.

These people are fairies. There is nowhere to hide. They have access to knowledge they don’t even know is extraordinary. Well they know, but only when the tide is in! Neptune. Other times they are supremely confused, only to have the tide come back in the nick of time.

And another thing I’ve noticed…well you’ve got Scorpio intensity of course, but there is tremendous empathy. There is no end to their ability to feel compassion and other people’s pain and if you are attuned to this kind of thing, you can feel it radiate from them.

And both of them are enormously giving emotionally. They will feel your pain for you (whether they want to or not). So there you go? Is this good? I think it’s good.

henry bikeScott’s sister was another friend of mine with Moon conjunct Neptune in Scorpio. She’s dead now, maybe you know. But she was also a supreme fairy. So incredibly powerful and so incredibly kind. She introduced Scott and I.

And then there’s Leon. He’s another life long friend of mine, with Moon Neptune in Scorpio. He helped me clean out Henry’s house when he died. And he kept showing up…he kept coming to my house, inviting me places and so forth in the months following Henry’s death, even though I could not stop crying to save my life.

His ex-wife from 20 years ago contacted him recently. Her current husband has died and she was in a crisis. He immediately offered his energy. He has supported her (emotionally) for a year now, expecting (and receiving) nothing in return. He does the same with his second ex-wife.

“She only calls me when she wants something,” he said. “And I just give it to her. I’d rather have her as a friend than an enemy,” he explained.

I nodded.

“I just can’t see…holding on to that bad stuff,” he said. “I just can’t do that…”

I didn’t say anything, but you know what I was thinking? I was thinking what a privilege it was to have such a compassionate loving man for a friend for so many years.

So there you go, Eme. I hope this serves.


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