Snapdragon asks on The Day The Police Came To Get Me also around the bad things that tend to happen to me.

“Elsa, do you believe in past lives? (not sure that I do) I’m just wondering if you chalk it up to your chart, or to karma, or what?”

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Relationship “karma”. Does the manner in which you leave one relationship impact the next?

Do people get what they deserve? This question came up in the comments on the video Why Do People Try To Block Other People’s Happiness? We discussed this last year…

Jupiter in Sagittarius… comparing perspectives. This is the soldier and I talking last night:

“Yeah, I wrote about justice on my blog. Our different views. Or our different experience is more like it. You see justice delivered and I frequently see the opposite.”
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Dear Elsa,

What happens to people, karmically, if they cheat on their husbands or wives? I know a woman with whom I work with, and she has 2 kids and she cheats on her husband with multiple men and he has no idea. Like, is there anything karmically that comes around to people?

She justifies this because she feels her husband is apathetic towards her. She does it, I think, like a drug addict. She likes the chase, the catch and then the conquer. Okay so I have a confession. I know all her secrets because I was checking her email and I can see the men she emails. She plays the victim, like “oh poor me I work so hard, my husband doesn’t think I’m sexy.” But, I can see emails from him to her saying hello beautiful, gorgeous, blah blah blah. Anyways, whatever. But it pisses me off.

She is sleeping with the president of my company, and she has also slept with other men who work in it, too. It’s just SO slimy! And she won’t leave her husband. She was also sleeping with another man in the company, but then when the President hit on her, she dumped the sales guy & went for him.

She has her same story that she tells these men. She tells them she is married and her husband doesn’t pay attention to her. Two of these men, the sales guy & the president LEFT THEIR WIVES FOR HER, and then she goes, no, I’m going to give it one more shot with my husband. She blames it on her strict religion (she is from Iran) and says she doesn’t want to break up her family. So she just goes around playing these men & they fall for it.

Anyway, I guess I just needed to vent. This woman is 36 and she is acting like this. I guess she is unhappy inside & sleeps with these men for a feeling of power, or I don’t know. It just bugs me, it’s slimy.

Are there repercussions karmically for stuff like that? Or it is just her own battle, we all have our inner battles, and this isn’t any worse than being an alcoholic or cheating on your taxes?

Office Snooper
United States

The writer is a 27 year old woman. Click to see the chart full size

So what do you think? Is there karmic retribution for cheating?

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Speaking of karma (in the comments on the last blog), recently I was writing to HQ about the soldier. He hates injustice and he strongly believes things get put right eventually. He thinks it can take a long time but he’s seen it come around too many times to think it won’t come around eventually.

Now I have not had the same experience. And it will be interesting to see if this changes at this point where our lives have intersected (again) or not. But as for current, I surprised myself by calling my life “a portrait of injustice” in my mail to HQ.

And he didn’t respond, or at least he hasn’t yet but this has been my absolute experience. I have seen very little come around! In fact I have seen virtually nothing come around (in my personal life) and many years ago I dealt with this by expanding the window. You know. There is always next life, right?

Well maybe there is. Or maybe some people just get to walk. I don’t know and really I don’t care. I used to care mightily but gave up in the early 90’s when all those planets lined up in Capricorn and I found out how little I had to do with anything.

Now I will say I do see it come around in other people’s lives. For example one of my friends was recently betrayed and I can see the universe setting up to pound the perps into the ever-lovin’ ground, but my life? I think people walk all the time. They just do.

What is your experience with this? What have you observed and how do you feel about it?

I have a very cautious friend. He’s cautious because whenever he tries to shirk anything, he’s typically caught and the consequences are generally severe.

I on the other hand, get away with almost everything and when I am caught the consequences are what would be expected on occasion but frequently they are light and even more frequently they are waived all together. It sounds like this…

“Hey, Elsa I know you did this and this and this.”

“Uh huh?”

“Think you can stop.”

“Yeah.”

“Okay, then. Sorry to bother you…”

Now it doesn’t always work that way but it works that way often enough to notice and I am never, ever handed down some kind of death blow punishment so why do you think this is? Why the disparity?

I wonder if it comes down to Saturn in the natal chart. If you have a well placed and well aspected Saturn might authority figures lean on you as opposed to crush you or throw the book at you? And do people with hard aspects to Saturn get slammed?

For the record, I don’t think it’s fair. I mean, I have Libra so I know it’s not fair but it does seem to happen this way. Do you notice this and if so how do you explain it?

satori and I. We’re still talkin’. Well, mostly me. But this is my bent…

“So as far as I am concerned the gal in Leonard Cohen’s poem… well, he just wrote her down, exactly. Which I think is nervy. But think about it. They run into each other - these ex-lovers. And she tells him his eyes are dead. What happened to you, Lover?” I smirked. “Like he’s broken or something. What the hell kind of thing is that to say? Who would to say something like that? It’s awful. It’s awful and it’s arrogant. Isn’t that how it sounds to you? Doesn’t that sound arrogant? You know? Uppity? Pretentious? Oh, your eyes are dead.”

“Yeah.”

“Well, I think so. So he goes home and writes a poem about her. He immortalized her in this poem and all it is the truth! It’s not hateful. It’s not vindictive. He says she lost her beauty and in fact she has. Because anyone who could and would say something like that, obviously has no beauty to them. How can make a comment like that and be beautiful, inside or out?” Continue reading Instant Karma, Truth and Violence in General

satori and I, continue to discuss….

“Thing is, she could not have expected that,” I said. These women who sleep with other women’s husbands, and she did this habitually. She did it as a habit, conscious or otherwise. She was a serial… this was her thing. But by and large they position themselves as the hot one. You know. They’re the Lolita and the wife is the dowdy wife. Even if they’re forty, they think this. They are the hot thing and the wife is the oppressive mother figure in an apron and they are going to do this man right.”

“That’s right.”

“Yeah. So it never occurs to them, that the guy they’re nabbing is going to have sex with them and go home thinking, that wasn’t all that good.” Continue reading Sleep With Her Husband At Your Own Risk - Redux: Violence Meets Violence - Instant Karma?