May
1

D.C. Madam Commits Suicide?

Astrology in real life

dc-madam.jpgI clicked on Drudge and saw the DC Madam had committed suicide. I know for a fact that astrologer, Claire-France Perez knows her and thought to call her when the news broke but figured others would be doing the same thing so I waited a few hours.

But when I read she killed herself in a shed I just shook my head. A shed? A shed!!!!

I am sorry by my Italian-ness and my criminal mind thinks that is ridiculous. Upscale this and that do not kill themselves in sheds for Godsakes! I called cf.

I asked her if she thought this woman the type to kill herself - Claire-France had actually warned her of danger due the retrograde Mars (and told me the same some months ago on the phone).

As far as I am concerned the shed part of this equation is a clear communication. Claire-France is going to write about this for my blog - Stay tuned.



Nov
5

Astrology And Children: Sun Conjunct Saturn @ 8 Years Old - Ouccccch! Not Again!

Astrology in real life

tooth fairyMy kid lost another tooth last night and per usual there was hardship and trauma attached. He proudly pulled this one himself than ran down the hall to get something to put it in, tripping on the way and seeing the thing go flying and he was distraught.

See, we couldn’t find the tooth. You’d think we’d have been able to find the tooth, both of us crawling up and down the hall on our knees (Saturn) over and over but that tooth was history and he was sooooooo upset although I tried to reassure him the Tooth Fairy would still show up. Continue reading Astrology And Children: Sun Conjunct Saturn @ 8 Years Old - Ouccccch! Not Again!


Oct
10

Regarding My Taurus Kid Who Can’t Manage To Hide From Me… And The Family Criminal Mind

Astrology in Real Life

TaurusI mentioned in the last blog, my kid (8 years old) is always trying to hide from me and he is just pathetic at it. Matter of fact he’s only hid from me successfully maybe 2 times out of 100 and I have told him point blank, “You’re no good at this.”

Now that may sound shocking and negative to some but this is my family not yours and we are not only blunt, we like a challenge. And this was my intention when I said that. What you’re doing isn’t working, try something else…

And so he did. Continue reading Regarding My Taurus Kid Who Can’t Manage To Hide From Me… And The Family Criminal Mind


Oct
3

Astrology Today - Mercury In Scorpio - Jeez Louise

My eye on the sky

gold nuggetWhat is it with the current transit of Mercury through Scorpio? I have never seen so much junk under rocks in my life! Is it because the planet is slowed down ready to go retrograde? Must be.

In whatever case, I am having a good time. Your criminal mind against mine? ::laughs:: Bring it on!

And backed up toilets aside, I should also mention Mercury is inordinately well-aspected which means if you can suss out which communications to trust, information that heals you is right, right there. But at the moment you have to pluck the nugget of gold from the mountain of crap so you know what Nike says. Just do it.

On other fronts, today someone (a man) drove alongside the soldier on the highway (Mercury), soliciting him for sex (Scorpio) on the cb. ::smiles:: I swear, that boy can’t leave home.

Do you see any evidence of Mercury’s transit through Scorpio in your life? Tell us!


Aug
3

Pluto Transit To The Moon - Mine: The Family Criminal Mind and My Son’s Scorpio Mars @ 7 Years Old

Astrology in Real Life

scorpio spidermanThis is more of the conversation between my 12 year old daughter and me on a road trip last month. Those blogs start here - >
Empowering My Daughter
My daughter is a Gemini, my son has a Scorpio Mars…

“So tell me how you think Vidroid is a criminal,” she asked.

I laughed. “Well, sure. He stole that doorknob and he was slick as snot when he did it.”

She laughed. “He tricked you.”

“Yeah, something like that. I don’t know what he did. He manipulated me I guess and he got away with it as I’m sure he knew he would. That was a perfect crime,” I said. “Scarily so. Because look. The kid was what? Was he seven?”

“Yeah.” Continue reading Pluto Transit To The Moon - Mine: The Family Criminal Mind and My Son’s Scorpio Mars @ 7 Years Old


Jul
12

Pluto Transit To The Moon - Mine: Empowering My Daughter By Giving Her The Goods

“Empowering My Daughter” starts here - Part One

jump My daughter and I on a road trip. She’s 12…

“Vidroid (her brother) is lawless like you,” she said. “He’s just like you.”

“Yeah, I agree. He is the family criminal.”

“He has a criminal mind just like yours.”

“Yeah, I don’t deny it. I don’t deny mine and I don’t deny his however I think his is like mine in that I doubt he ever gets in trouble with it. He seems to know exactly what he can get away with and he does not cross the line. This is a gift you know. It’s a skill and a curse. A curse you do not suffer from and I suppose you’re lucky for that.” Continue reading Pluto Transit To The Moon - Mine: Empowering My Daughter By Giving Her The Goods


Jun
19

Critical, Controlling Sagittarius Man With Family, Relationship Issues: Moon Pluto Conjunct in Libra

Dear Elsa,

I’ve moved back to spend some time with my family, after being away for about 10 years with no visits at all for the last 5 years or so. I’ve never been very into my family and while I’ve kept it “cordial” with them over the years, we’ve been having very exaggerated blowups since I returned.

Also a few months ago I suddenly started realizing a lot of things: that I felt very hurt by them since early childhood, that I spent most of my teenage years feeling completely detached from and oblivious of them, and that I was glad to get the hell out of the country at 17.

Further, I realized that I’m terrified of getting into any more relationships with women because I’ve gone from being a nice guy whenever I’m involved in a relationship, to kind of a scary, controlling freak. I always project upon women as if they’re a crazy, demanding bitch… but I’m not even sure what’s what anymore

Now I’d like to figure out what my way out of my issues is. Since I’ve been back, I pick on everything they do, criticize them mercilessly and they’re shocked. I don’t want to be this way, but it seems like I can’t have a discussion without having a fight. I returned in a very good mood and eager to rejoin my family, and instead I’ve been a wreck, lying in bed for the last few months, and letting several good career opportunities slide.

I don’t want to be an asshole and shred their self-confidence, even if I’m being honest. Then I’ll be just like them! Help!

Man With Issues
United States

sagittariusDear Issues,

It is clear that you have problems and need help beyond what I can offer in an advice blog. But perhaps I can give you some clues that will send you in the right direction.

First, you have no separation with your family. I don’t care if you traveled around the world and thought yourself independent: you carry their energy. The way I like to put it is, you have swallowed them whole. They live in you.

If you question this, go look in the mirror. Whose eyes are those? Whose eyebrows? You can see the physical manifestation of this, and I assure you this merge with your family takes place on other (all) levels.

So using this analogy, you can comb your (inherited) hair however you want. You can dye your hair or shave your head… but you can be sure that when your hair grows out, it’s going to be what? It is going to be your family hair. And you cannot escape this even if it is horribly disturbing to you.

And having Libra and a packed 7th house, I sure you want it to be them not you.
And having Aquarius rising I am sure you want to see yourself as an individual.
And having your Sun conjunct Neptune in Sagittarius, I am sure you want to be a high-minded spiritual sort.

But the fact remains, you have your family’s energy. The only way you are going to be able to resolve your problems is by understanding this, accepting and integrating it… so that ultimately you can have command of it and I’ll give you an example.

It is well and widely known that I was raised by a criminal and in fact I am not an innocent. I cop to having inherited a criminal mind and I use it on a daily basis to write this blog… which I feel is a high-minded service.

You can do the same with your family’s negative energy… but not until and unless you acknowledge you have been passed this baton.

Good luck.

~~
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Jan
6

Pluto Transit To The Moon: Mine… The Family Legacy

Ask The Collective…

moonA few blogs back, the solider was talking about how you can’t shake your upbringing. He was raised in a conservative family, steeped in tradition, his family and his roots where as I was raised by progressive, eccentric and ultra-detached, Aquarians. And with the Pluto transit (uncover what is hidden) to my Moon (roots) these things have become center stage.

Now when we were kids, this was one jacked up relationship! Because coming here from South America, a quarter Italian himself, he took one look at me… we were the same color, and he assumed that I was just like him. You know. He assumed I was Catholic, for starters! And I never did disabuse him of this notion. Continue reading Pluto Transit To The Moon: Mine… The Family Legacy


Dec
25

Gemini! Astrology and Being Of Two Minds

Astrology in Real Life…

why they kill rhodesWhen I went to New York, I brought two books to read on plane. Michael Lutin’s, “SunShines: The Astrology of Being Happy” and “Why They Kill: The Discoveries of a Maverick Criminologist” by Richard Rhodes. I was stowing them seat back in front of me when it hit me how spastic it was even though I am very interested in being happy and murder and mayhem.

Generally I would read about one thing or the other. I’d be on a binge. But I read the books, chapter of this, chapter of that all the way to New York and back and I don’t know. I figured this must be a reflection of the (newly) progressed Gemini in my chart because I was having no problem going back and forth between subjects. I was positively deft and felt so light and detached about it all.

“Oh! Well that’s is interesting. Let’s look at this other thing…” See? Like I’m two people, talking to each other!

And I have no Gemini at all in my natal chart… or planets in the 3rd so this is all very marvelous for me to observe.

Do you have Gemini in your chart? How does it manifest?


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