I was thinking about this today.  Cheating on your spouse is so prevalent now, many are conditioned to think affairs / infidelity is to be expected at some point in a marriage.  Here are my questions:

Did one (or both) or your parents cheat?
When did you find out? How old?
How did you feel?
How do you feel now?
How did your parents fidelity (or lack of it) affect you as an adult.

And the astrology - Where is your Venus?

This has been a topic of discussion in my circle recently. What do you do if you’re an expressly loyal person and your spouse cuts you off sexually? What if they deprive you of physical contact for a month, two months, three months or a year and this becomes a way of life?

And what if you can’t leave the marriage for financial reasons, at least not in the short term without total ruin? Is there a point at where you are justified to go outside your marriage for sex?
Continue reading Open Queston: Is Cheating Ever Justified? POLL

Regarding, A Fish Tale - Two Pisces With Cheating Husbands, someone asked what happened to the gal who screwed the two husbands. I thought satori might tell you but she seems to have forgotten (she’s a Pisces) so I’ll tell you what happened because it brings up a subject another friend of mine is dealing with at the moment - Stalking.

satori and her husband divorced. He husband said disparaging remarks about this woman’s body which got back to the woman. In other words, she was used. She found out that he thought her ass was nothing special and the like. It was really quite degrading and a massive wake up call around what the man you are cheating with might really think of you.
Continue reading A Fish Tale - Two Pisces With Cheating Husbands - Epilogue… Stalking

I was discussing the What’s a Married Man To Do When A Woman Flirts With Him? post that inspired such passionate reaction with a pal. I explained I wouldn’t spend 5 minutes with a man who would flirt in a bar like that and I realize that many will read this and believe I am delusional.

That’s because they project their experience but I’ll tell you something, I am not a stupid woman.
Continue reading Couples Who Don’t Flirt Around Or Cheat On Their Partner

When I told this story the first time, someone asked for some astrology on the men and to tell you the truth I don’t know much about them. The first husband was having a Uranus transit, I can tell you that. But it was the women who turned out to be interesting.

For starters this was a big dilemma for me. There is such a thing as confidentiality of course. But I had this idea I should introduce these two women. Because think about it.
Continue reading A Fish Tale - Two Pisces With Cheating Husbands: Part One

This stuff happened in 2001 into 2002.

I told this story in 2006 but I am going to tell it again because the Sun is in Pisces, because its a good one, there are a lot of new readers here and because it takes on new meaning when you catch the update in 2009.
Continue reading Allll Right! The Sun Is In Pisces And Here Comes A Fish Tale…

Dear Elsa,

Scorpio
United States
Continue reading Open Question: What Kind Of Married Man Brings His Affair Partner Into The Home He Shares With His Wife, To Have Sex

This question came up tonight. If my lover or husband cheated on me I would end the relationship instantly and without ceremony. I have felt this way all my life and it has been completely understood by every man I have ever known.

On the flip side, every man I have ever known has felt exactly the same way but I know that many of you have a revolving door policy and I wonder the numbers, the reasons and the astrology so…

“I’d be shocked if you cheated on me,” the soldier said. “I would be totally shocked,” he said carefully.

“I’d be shocked myself seeing as I’ve never cheated on a man in my life, never mind cheat on you.”

“Yep, I’d be shocked and it would end it I guess. It would end our relationship but I would sure be in agony. I’d be in some pain… pain.”

“Well I am not a cheater.”

“I know you’re not. I know you don’t cheat and I do trust you.”
Continue reading His Scorpio Moon And My 8th House: Trust - The Deal Breaker In Relationship In Both Directions

With Venus squaring Pluto some are finding themselves in relationship triangles. This does not mean it’s nasty, for example the soldier, his son and I are triangulated at the moment with good result. However some of you are not faring as well so take this lesson from my gal, Betty if you need too. And keep in mind the other entity is not necessarily another woman. Could be porn… cocaine, his mother… you get the idea.