Who is faring well with Saturn in Libra, who is not and why…

There is a T-square in the Cardinal signs, people want to control other people. On that note - this:
Paul, a regretful control freak tells a story on Henry...

There are hot comments on Gaslighting Redux regarding people who hate me or get pissed off at me due this blog and May writes

“What if you’re just a naturally disruptive person? Like you just have this Uranus energy?”

Well I might be but I think it is more likely it is other who is naturally disruptED and disruptive. Because no one is contained here. It’s a big world and a big internet and if you come here every day or three times a day, you are CHOOSING to be disrupted. (swearing below the break)
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There is another angle on that Venus Neptune painting piece I want to flesh out bit for very specific purpose. It is the mention in there of HQ’s vote of confidence in our relationship.

The soldier and I were facing a very hard road if we were going to find a way to come together. For example he had to live in a truck for a year while I had to drive all over the country in support and to maintain the relationship so really, how many people are going to do that for each other? Virtually none.

To embark on something like this we had to BELIEVE. It took copious amounts of faith and maybe you can see how important it was to have HQ state his belief if we took this hard road it would lead us to happiness. That one statement kicked me into a higher gear and what if he’d said something otherwise? What if he’d said something cock-blocking, hmm? Something to undermine. Where do you think we’d be right now?
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I am going to see my daughter today and when I glanced at the chart of time of the meeting it struck me what a serious day this is. It’s Jupiter in Capricorn with the Moon heading to full in the sign tomorrow and the Mars Saturn conjunction that tells this story.

The opposition of Moon Jupiter in Capricorn to the Sun in Cancer indicates we are talking about relationships here rather than something you are experiencing or enjoying (more likely enduring) alone.

Personally, I have significant emphasis on the late degrees of the Cardinal signs and I find myself very defended at the moment. I’ve just got my boundaries up like some sort of fortress. Even the people closest to me are not close to me at the moment and I can’t say much besides it’s the way that I want it.

Not that this will last. My boundaries will dissolve (Saturn Neptune), they always do but right now safety seems to trump everything and I don’t think I am the only one.

I see others out there acting with caution. I’d even call it extreme caution and I don’t really blame them. “Better safe than sorry” seems to be the words of the day. Thank God this is only transitory (for most) because it’s a hell of a way to live.

How are you feeling today?

Michele writes on Be Careful What You Flush:

“I am thinking it is kind of a thing with Society right now… If this happens, you’re out the door. If that happens, you’re history. There’s tons more where you came from. Umm, I guess I mean a lot less patience, understanding, forgiveness… I’m not sure I’m making a judgment, just an observation.”

Michele - I agree. These are attempts to make boundaries and have some control and I guess my assertion is that people put their boundaries in some pretty weird places for some pretty weird reasons that cost them friends and lovers.

Boundaries are a Capricorn thing and with Pluto’s transit through Capricorn one of the things to be addressed is the shadow side of your boundary.

What is the psychological (probably subconscious) reason that you fire or reject people?  Now would be the time to discover this so you don’t drive your life right into the abyss.

For example, it’s common people reject others because they fear being rejected themselves which sets up a wicked, wicked cycle. This alone is enough to devastate a life so you can see how important this is.

The soldier called within 5 minutes to ask me if I wanted to come out and wait in the truck wash line as it can take hours to get your truck washed. He was trying to peace-make which I appreciated but I saw no sense going out there when I could not return the gesture. It seemed a better idea I maintain the space because I was working on a deep level that was productive for me.

I was thinking about what I had written on my blog about going down in a well. I was thinking how good I am at this. I have spent my whole like in a well and I was thinking I ought to go on my blog and tell people how this is best done because I do know.

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Dina quotes me on the Pisces Hook blog:

“Really? That’s surprising to me about you since you definitely tell it like it is to a lot of people who need help, lance the boil so to speak. Particularly hooked Pisceans who are kidding themselves! How does this play out in your astrology, if I may ask? Your Neptune has something to do with it, I suppose.”

Dina - I don’t think it has anything to do with Neptune. It has to do with boundaries. People ask me what I think and I tell them. I would never bother someone with my ideas or confront their denial otherwise. It is really none of my business what people do and if you read this blog it’s pretty clear I am focused on my own life and growth. I just don’t worry about what other people are doing right up until the hire me that is.

Hire me and I am on it but other than that I have waaaay too much respect for people to think that I know when they should face something. As far as I am concerned everyone has an inner clock. They have their own timing and their own agenda for their life which I am not even going to think about messing with, know why?

Because I am busy running my life of course.

I made a video about all this controversy but for some reason my camera is not recording sound so arrrrrrrgh.

But I wanted to start a (fast… yeah right, dream on) series on Saturn in Virgo because I am getting inundated at the moment with events and scenarios that reek of it.

For example, someone wrote me yesterday to tell me to write something on each of the sun signs, and make them available to her by adding a tab at the top of my blog. Say what? Who is this stranger who believes she can boss my writing?

The current controversy on my blog is also interesting. Who should define (Saturn) what is helpful (Virgo)?

So who should define what is helpful?