CK writes, regarding women hunting women: “I’d say…if you notice it or it happens significantly to you, it’s because it’s a part of you!”

And turns out, this exact thing came up during a conversation with a friend a few days ago…

“I don’t know about that,” I said. “For example, I attract people with problems. Maybe that’s because I know how to fix them. Maybe it’s not any different than a heart surgeon who attracts people with bad hearts. Who else is going to showing up at his office?” I asked. “And what about you? You cut hair. So you’re going to attract people with bad haircuts all the time. But does this mean your hair is bad? Maybe your hair is fine. Your hair actually is fine. I know that for a fact but you still attract a stream of people who need their hair fixed so I’m just not sure this whole thing holds water.”

Who do you attract?

This is from 2007.

From March 2008: Is there someone for everyone? I think so. Tips on finding your ideal love - Awareness is key…

How comfortable are you when uncomfortable? Here’s a story from 28 years ago, the last time Saturn transited my 8th house and I learned (Saturn) about this attraction/repulsion thing (8th house) (from 2008)

Charlotte writes on How To Attract A Satisfying Love Relationship - Venus!

“I really wish it were that easy.”

Charlotte - I don’t know that it’s simple, but I know if you put your resume out there you’re going to find someone who is looking for a resume. And if you put another person’s resume out there, that’s even worse. It seems to me you have to put your SELF out there, take a chance.

Jerry Riopelle writes:

“Check my hat and cane
Check out the way I dance
But don’t you walk my way,
‘less you’re gonna take a chance…”
Continue reading Follow Up On “How To Attract A Satisfying Love Relationship” - Is It Simple?

This is the next bit from days of yore. I am still leading to my fresh thoughts on this subject…

My sister also gravitates towards a certain physical type, we noted that although the men we choose are akin to our father, they are also very distinctly different from him. My type is also different from hers and we concluded that while the opposite sex parent may have some play, there is more to the story. She wondered about past lives for example while I just wondered in general.
Continue reading Do You Have an Organic Attraction to a Physical Type? Why Is That?

I have this “imprint” thing on my mind (again) so I am pulling up this old blog for the newcomers so we can get back on this subject because I have drawn new conclusions from this…

My sister had a theory she shared with me about 20 years ago. She felt we all had a “blueprint” around what we were looking for in relationship. Dark eyes, dark hair, or whatever.

“You’re sitting on a plane with whomever, and your type walks by,” my sister explained. “And you look at him, you can’t help it. It’s the guy you are always going to notice, who is going to notice you…”
Continue reading Who Do You Love? Do You Have an Organic Attraction to a Physical Type? Poll

Pluto, Scorpio and the 8th house… projecting your shadow, a real life example.

Elsa Blog about Kate - Cock-Blocking Women - Is This A Trend?

Kate’s article with comments: “What Modern Women Want: A Beta Male”

Dina asks on  He’s Not The Into You:

“But, Elsa, what if you’re fat? Or what if you’re unkempt? Primping is so emphasized in our culture, playing the courting game, wearing clothing that flatters and changes you.. “Staying just as you are because someone’s looking for you..” I don’t know.”

Dina, one person’s fat is another person’s desirable and what is unkempt to one is casual and relaxed to another but less you think this answer is a cop out, let me make this very clear:

Continue reading Who Do You Love? Fat, Skinny, Tall, Short, Funny, Serious…

Regarding Attraction and Propulsion, Foxxy writes:

“… No matter how happy attracted or satisfied I am when I need to go I am propelled. Sometimes its like being shot from a cannon.

Bootling in your case Elsa, right? The soldier’s mud hole is great and all, but his acknowledgment of your (drive) need to bootle is one of this things that makes the relationship work . .”
Continue reading Astrology and Attraction vs Propulsion: Does Venus Trump Mars?