Yesterday morning after breakfast the soldier put “Patton” so he could better digest his food. “Let me just have a few minutes of war… some martial music so I can relax before we unload that truck. He proceeded to call me in every 4 seconds to see “the most important thing to know about Patton,” or ‘my other favorite scene in this movie…”

And you know the soldier believes in past lives (as a soldier) which is something he has in common with Patton. With his south node (past life) in Aries (war) in the first house (war), astrology supports his claim. We watched the scene in the movie that addresses Patton’s past lives.

“So what?” I asked. “Do you think you know him? Did you know him back whenever?”

Continue reading Voice Of Mars… South Node In Aries, First House

I was talking to a pal last night, she’s dating an Aries. You have to challenge Aries or else. This blog is full of women (and men) writing about how their Aries lover has lost interest after they have offered their total devotion. Aries hates that!

Aries is the God of War, not love. Put Venus in one of the Mars-ruled signs and it starts to cook. It gets hot. Mars likes to fight. Venus in Aries makes war of love and love of war and this is the story I told this gal last night…

My sister is a Pisces with Venus in Aries. One day her husband answered a knock at the door of their home. It was a saleswoman and as my sister’s husband stood talking to her, my sister got a vibe she didn’t like.

Being a dancer, the front room of their house was a studio with a hardwood floor and catching this vibe, she picked up a chair and without a moment of hesitation she winged it across the room aimed at his knees.

The chair went sliding across the floor and went BAM into his shins, nearly knocking him down like a bowling pin and though he wheeled around in a flash of anger he wound up with this stupid puppy dog, “I love you” look across his face. He then shut the door on the saleswoman without comment, and this turned into foreplay for the two of them and do you know who told me this story?

He did. He had an Aries rising. Aries hates a wimp and he was braggin’ on his woman for not taking any shit.

Can you Aries out there relate?

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Aries is a fire sign, known for being aggressive, brash and confident. Mars ruled, Aries are go-getters, natural warriors, yang. They are concerned with the self - “me” as opposed to “we”.

It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things.
Leonardo da Vinci




I don’t judge others. I say if you feel good with what you’re doing, let your freak flag fly.
Sarah Jessica Parker

I’ve always had confidence. It came because I have lots of initiative. I wanted to make something of myself.
Eddie Murphy

I’m an intense bastard when I’m doing my job. I don’t suffer fools and I don’t wanna fuck around. I want you to be ready and prepared. Let’s go, man. If you come to that set and you don’t know your lines, what the fuck have you been doing? You don’t deserve the job.
Russell Crowev

In this world, I call the shots and I think I know best.
Mariah Carey




More Aries quotes…

“I told my blog you were going to the grocery store with me and going to stare at all my boyfriends I have.”

“You got that right. Someone ought to get their ass kicked.”

“What?  How come I told you those Knights of Columbus were looking at my ass and you said, good man.”

“Good man, I said and right after that, dead man! Better not be looking at my girl when I am there,” he said.

“Oh. Well no one is going to do that,” I said. “They won’t do that with you there.”

“And I won’t beat anyone up. I’m not going to beat anyone up, P. I’m just going to go in there, yellin’ outa the way with your bikini lines!  Hairy man comin’ through!”

Peels of laughter and much snorting.

Dear Mother,

I hate to say it but I think you are up a creek. It is obvious from your post you place high value on your hotness and your sex. With your Sun in Aries and ruler Mars in Scorpio, this is confirmed in your chart so there is nothing you are going to be able to do about that.

Now you have a Libra Moon so a strong desire to be partnered and with the Sun and Moon in Cardinal signs you also want control. Saturn’s in there so that goes double.. er… triple.

Jupiter in Cancer (more control) wants a family and security however that Aries Sun of yours likes the thrill of the chase the Sagittarius provides. If you get him to commit… submit and conform to what you want, what do you think will happen to the sex you are having? Think it would change?

You also have an Aquarius rising which wants no man issuing orders and a seventh house Uranus confirms this and I hope you are getting an idea here. You are a bundle of conflicting drive and desires so what are you going to do?

If you dump the Sadge and get a more docile man, will you like him, or kill him? Good question I think.

I don’t know what you are going to do but I would try real hard to get over the fact you are 41. Women who are hot are 41 are hot at 51 and even 61 if they still give a damn to be, past menopause. Don’t let your fears drive your decisions.

Secondly get conscious of your own need for challenge and freedom because if you dump this guy denying these things, ooh baby, the boredom.

I am not meaning to plead his case. I am just saying you may be more like him than you care to admit.

Good luck.

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Aries is a fire sign, known for being aggressive, brash and confident. Mars ruled, Aries are go-getters, natural warriors, yang. They are concerned with the self - “me” as opposed to “we”.

I don’t think it’s the nature of any man to be monogamous. Men are propelled by genetically ordained impulses over which they have no control to distribute their seed.
Marlon Brando

You can’t just sit there and wait for people to give you that golden dream. You’ve got to get out there and make it happen for yourself.
Diana Ross

If boyhood and youth are but vanity, must it not be our ambition to become men?
Vincent Van Gogh

I’m not good at future planning. I don’t plan at all. I don’t know what I’m doing tomorrow. I don’t have a day planner and I don’t have a diary. I completely live in the now, not in the past, not in the future.
Heath Ledger

More Aries quotes…

Anyone who can add to this, please do!

Dear Aries,

I hate to tell you this but I think he is still carrying a torch. Not to say he doesn’t love you. With Venus in Gemini (two loves) conjunct Saturn, I would say this is most likely the case and go on to say if he was with her, he would miss you and vice versa. In other words this guy is not likely to be all that satisfied regardless and there is another wrinkle.

His Venus Saturn conjunction is in aspect to Uranus so he constantly wants free of all this anyway. He wants space so let’s see how he gets it: first, he falls in love with a married woman and now he uses her to maintain space in his relationship with you. Are you getting this? I hope so.

On your end, you have a stellium in Aries so you’re going to like the fight. You naturally rise to the challenge to best this woman, that is. But unfortunately you also have Venus in Capricorn, etc which shows that underlying all this is a deep fear you don’t deserve any better.

I imagine you fear you are not worthy of a man who would love you and only you and this is the part that needs the work. Because as is, you are settling… when in your own words, you state that you will never be happy settling.

Good luck.

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Dear Date,

Welcome to the world of online dating where a lot of people act like flakes. I think this guy is probably gone and if not, he will be before long and it has nothing to do with you.

Aries is famous for starting things they don’t finish. This guy also has a Cancer Moon, part of a grand trine in water and I imagine he’s pretty good with women. He’s manly and sensitive, see? But that does not mean he actually wants a relationship, and if you read between the lines he pretty much told you this.

“I want a challenge” means exactly that. It means he is going out, getting women interested in him and once they are, well hell. Where’s the challenge? So you see what happened here. You liked him; he was successful in engaging you - that’s a successful mission and now on to the next.

I am very sorry if this makes you feel bad but I am not sure it should. Because you have a stellium in Pisces and fantasizing is part of your makeup. So the idea you are going to have and maintain a relationship with a man who lives two hours away is a little bit reaching - the point being, I think both parties acted in accord with their natures. Not to say he shouldn’t call or mail you but when you think about it, what’s that mail supposed to say?

“Don’t wait for me to call or write you because I start things I don’t finish, it’s my makeup?”

You get the idea. Fish another line, Pisces. And no reason to feel bad, this is just not the man you are looking for.

Good luck.

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