Saturn in Libra: Judging Your Relationships, and Cannibalism ::wink:: By satori
“What at first seemed sexy and progressive now struck him as vulgar and insecure.”
–John Irving, Last Night in Twisted River
Much has been said
about Saturn’s move into Libra and solidifying one’s relationships. I’m starting to look at the people in my life and decide whether or not they’re worth it. Is that harsh? It is, but it feels necessary. I sure don’t have unlimited resources, financial or emotional, and I’m feeling the crunch. I’m circling the wagons, figuring out who to keep in my lifeboat.
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Regarding The Chat Now - Live Feature On This Blog
Behind the scenes @ ElsaElsa
A few days ago we launched Chat Now - Live and jo asks:
“elsa- i have a question… i’ve never seen the chat module on the sidebar, and i’m on here pretty often. im using google chrome… is it only compatible with certain browsers, or.. am i just always on when you’re not?”
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Starts In 2 Days: Dealer’s Choice, An Astrology Class Zombie Jamboree Free-For-All
Come on, come all!
The next session in the Colosseum which will start in 2 day. I asked what topics people wanted to cover and got such a wide variety of interesting ideas, I decided to take them all on.
- Parenting
- Attraction
- Thriving in 2010
- Projection
- The Moon
- Mars
- The kitchen sink
You name it, this time we’re going to have a free for all. This class will be called, “Dealer’s Choice”.
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Astrology, Social Problems, History Repeating And The Way Life Goes In General
My eye on the sky
alicia had a good question on the Where I Stand post in regards to the pressure I feel towards being polite with Saturn in Libra:
“Question, the planets are saying be polite, so is this a permanent shift?”
Yes and no. It’s a building block.
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1 Minute Astrology - Demystifying The Saturn Return… Part 3: My Saturn Return
The series starts here: Demystifying The Saturn Return - Intro
Another example of an individual’s Saturn Return - my own. You have to face your fears rather than respond to other people’s fears. Place boundaries, take a long term view… and most importantly - Be true to yourself.
Skip to Part 4 - A Classic Case
1 Minute Astrology - In Support And Defense Of Virgo
Astrology in real life
One Year Ago On The Elsa Blog: Voice Of Saturn; What Can I Do To Help My Lazy, Spoiled Son? and Venus, Money, And Relationship
Flashbacks
I’m talking to the soldier here. It’s very obvious my Mercury (thoughts) are is conjunct Mars (sex and aggression).
“I realized something,” I said. “I get pretty stupid at times. Like when I am happy and having a lot of sex, I get positively docile. It’s as if I can’t think at all. No need! But just as soon as I feel threatened, you better look out! All the sudden my brain fires up and I become… well, I become freakishly brilliant. All the sudden I can think up, down into the ground, and next thing you know a persons is screwed, blued and tattooed. I have them wrapped up tight and this is all done before it’s even occurred to them I might rise from my slumber. That I might have any ability at all. But until I’m threatened? Nothing. I appear to be some kind of pure fool.”
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Vindictive Sister - Venus in Aspect to Saturn and Pluto: Astrology-Based Advice
Hi Elsa,
I am wondering if my Pisces sister is ever going to make an effort to have a decent relationship with me. She has unrealistic expectations, and is always consumed with jealousy. We have brief periods where I can see a glimmer of hope that things will work out. But then she turns cold, petty, and vindictive again.
Should I toss in the towel or keep on trying?
Sign me,
Sister Giving Up
Dear Sister,
You can toss in the towel but if you want to keep trying, you’d better try something new, eh? The astrology here is pretty interesting.
I think you have more in common with you sister than you imagine. Both of your have enormous challenges in relationships and they’re more similar than not. I bet you’re surprised but if you re-read your post up there you might notice something.
The post is all about you pointing the finger at her. She’s the whole shadow and what are you? Pristine? That does not compute.
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Grew Up In A Religious Home, Now She Studies Astrology - Family Trouble: Capricorn Moon, Sagittarius Rising
Hi Elsa,
I am having trouble relating to my sisters. I talk to them all very superficially, but I feel I cannot be myself around them. We grew up in a religious home (evangelical Christians) but I am not religious. I curse like a trucker, I am pro-choice, I hang out with all kinds of wacky people, and I love my queer friends.
I get very depressed when I hang out with my sisters because I feel like there is something wrong with me - that I am cold, that I don’t tell them anything about myself, that I can’t BE MYSELF because obviously I do not tell them anything about my life. I left home at 16 because of a huge myriad of reasons, all leading to me wanting to feel free to be myself.
I feel as though I am a failure because I cannot be myself - or really be true to myself - when I talk to my sisters. I really feel like I hide who I am. And I feel lonely and isolated and wondering how I can learn to be myself around my sisters like I am with my friends. I feel like I am missing out on family.
The more I explore spirituality, the more depressed and isolated I feel: my sister came over for a night and I had to hide all of my astrology books because I couldn’t bear the theological argument. Even just the “I’m praying for you” crap that makes me feel like a complete and utter failure.
Sorry to be so dramatic. I just think that these people aren’t assholes or bad, so I want to get along with them. I feel like a phony. The last time I stood up for what I believed in there were serious repercussions which hurt for a long time.
Anyhoot. Thanks for any insight you may offer.
Isolated Sister
Dear Sister,
Your problem is terrifically complicated but also very simple. First the conundrum: Mercury rules “siblings” and yours is highly stressed. It’s involved in a T-square with Uranus and Saturn which plays about million ways. Like this:
Rebel (Uranus) against your siblings (Mercury)… and vice versa.
Oppressed / Restricted /Rejected (Saturn) by your sibs (Mercury)… and vice versa.
And I could go on and on. These things go ’round and ’round, bing, bang, bing like a pinball machine. And although there are positive ways for these energies to express, this is an advanced game, beyond the scope of what can be addressed on this blog. So leaving that be, I would advise you to focus first on something much simpler. The basic way you’re living that is, because this is what is causing most your symptoms anyway.
See, you’ve got a Capricorn Moon. And Capricorn cannot thrive until and unless they are living completely above board. You must live with integrity or else… well in the case of the Sun in Capricorn, life without integrity is a dismal failure. In the case of a Capricorn Moon, you are going to be depressed! So you get my drift. It is you responsible for your depression and you who can fix it.
And your Sagittarius rising echoes this theme. Sagittarians are all about what they believe. And who are you if you are concealing your “religion” (or lack of) courtesy your fear of being rejected (Capricorn) by your family (Moon)?
I vote that you express yourself. Live free and let the chips fall. Because I’m telling you, your relationship with your sibs is going to be taut regardless. But at least this way you’ll have integrity, and with your Sagittarius standing proud I bet your mood improves.
Good luck.
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