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Dear Elsa,

I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?

What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?

Curious
United States

Continue reading Open Question: Can Scorpio / Plutonian Intense Relationships Last Or Do They Die By Their Nature?

Dear Unloved,

I don’t believe anyone is destined to be unloved, but I know for sure that loves comes easier to some than others. And with Saturn ruling your 7th house and Venus in Scorpio square Saturn, you are clearly one of the others and for that I am sorry and I will try to help.

Saturn tied to Venus delays love in most cases, and if you read around you’ll be told that love comes later in life but I’d say there is no such guarantee. Love comes later in life to those willing to work for it. And I am sorry but this is just a fact and thinking otherwise is sort of like believing we all get rich in the end. Er… no we don’t!
Continue reading Am I Destined To Be Unloved? Venus In Scorpio Square Saturn Ruling The 7th House

We’re having a discussion in the Colosseum in regards to my idea that with Saturn in Libra people will put forth an effort to be attractive. “With Saturn in Virgo people learned to better communicate and now they will learn to attract…”

It is a period where the concept of being able to sit on the couch thinking love is going to come knock down your door and sweep you away will fall away. Women will realize the man on a white horse is a fantasy and if they insist on clinging to it, that is all they are going to have.

Continue reading Saturn in Libra: “Many Fish Bite If You Got Good Bait…”

Another example of an individual’s Saturn Return - my own. You have to face your fears rather than respond to other people’s fears. Place boundaries, take a long term view… and most importantly - Be true to yourself.

Skip to Part 4 - A Classic Case

Regarding that picture when I was 9, my sister wrote:

“That dress you are wearing came in this package someone gave us for rodeo week. We had to dress rodeo for school so someone gave us three dresses, that was one. The other two were gingham and ugly. (I decided.)

I had a thing for velvet and that dress had some velvet so I was considering it very carefully, so were you.

I decided I couldn’t wear western. I decided I hated western wear on that day and you ended up putting on the dress. Everyone thought you looked cute so Henry took your picture in it, remember?”
Continue reading Budding Astrologers… With Capricorn Risings

I’m talking to the soldier here. It’s very obvious my Mercury (thoughts) are is conjunct Mars (sex and aggression).

“I realized something,” I said. “I get pretty stupid at times. Like when I am happy and having a lot of sex, I get positively docile. It’s as if I can’t think at all. No need! But just as soon as I feel threatened, you better look out! All the sudden my brain fires up and I become… well, I become freakishly brilliant. All the sudden I can think up, down into the ground, and next thing you know a persons is screwed, blued and tattooed. I have them wrapped up tight and this is all done before it’s even occurred to them I might rise from my slumber. That I might have any ability at all. But until I’m threatened? Nothing. I appear to be some kind of pure fool.”
Continue reading Kangaroo!

Dear Unsure,

I think I can make this very simple for you, so I’m going to do that first and then I’m going to make this hard. Here is the simple solution: Leave him! Could you do it? I’m guessin’ you’d be cryin’ for this guy within a week and crying even harder six months down the road.

Continue reading Love and Money: Venus in the 8th House - Astrology-Based Advice

Dear Hat,

I have no idea what your signature means but I left it intact for others to puzzle over while I try to crack your problem, which I feel is far more common than the people realize or care to admit. And the cause, and the specifics from person to person are endlessly varied. But what you have in common is this: You have cracked 40 years old and you are alone. And I’ll tell you exactly why I think this is.
Continue reading Commitment Phobic In Her 40’s: What Now? Astrology-Based Advice

Dear Leo,

You sound like an addict and I am not trying to be insulting, I am trying to help you. Because you are killing your love here, a propensity shown in your chart courtesy your Venus Pluto conjunction and if you don’t stop this immediately and refocus on healing I am sure you will kill this love and then what? Chew your arm off?

The addictive tendency is also shown in your chart courtesy the Neptune squares… so what are you going to do here? Are you going to clean up your act or yearn for a situation where your act is cleaned up?

You have the power (in spades) to turn this around. It’s simple. Shut the hell up with your nasty comments. Protect your relationship (also Venus Pluto) by getting a therapist and yelling at him or her for a change while you get to the bottom of your problem here because judging by your last sentence there… I think you were far happier in love than you are in hate.

Good luck.

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