dogs playing pokerOn the drive to New Mexico, I was thinking about Kate (Kate Mulvey Can’t Get A Date And It’s Because Of You!) and trying to fathom her and people like her. People who project their shadow onto others, that is. How do they get that way? Better yet, how do they stay that way?

Continue reading 3 Years Ago On The Elsa Blog: Astrology and Psychology: Projecting Your Shadow And Various Other Sundries…


Ask The Collective: The Worst Thing a Person Can Do To Me Is…

February 2nd, 2010 @ 4:19 pm by Elsa

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zodiac 2007I had a friend tell me recently that the worst thing someone could do to her was to make her care. I thought this was pretty profound. And it made sense to me. To care is to be vulnerable and caring is frequently exquisitely painful.

And though I understood this, and I was very impressed she could state this so plainly, I can’t say I feel the same way. Her view is accessible, but this is her “worst thing” not mine. And this made me realize the “worst thing a person can do” is not universal, but highly personal.

What is the worst thing a person can do to you? Can you connect the astrology?

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Lack Of Consistency Of Theory = Misery?

January 28th, 2010 @ 7:21 pm by Elsa

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I wrote this a number of weeks ago. I’d started to discuss this but there was so much heat on the blog at the time, I didn’t want to deal with the fallout so it’s been sitting in draft since. But is a very interesting concept so I am resurrecting it…

Some weeks ago, the soldier said he felt that lack of consistency (of theory) is what made a person miserable.  He’s a Taurus, they are known for their stability but that aside I thought his statement very interesting.

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From 2007 - Synastry In Real Life: What if two people love each other but have love natures that are not compatible? Is this resolvable?

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Ask The Collective: 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover - What’s Yours?

January 19th, 2010 @ 1:50 pm by Elsa

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paul.jpgWhat do you do when you are betrayed in a relationship? Do you leave right away or debate it? Do you stay in the relationship, look the other way and ignore it for awhile? Do you confront? Do you set the person up for an equivalent betrayal?

Personally… with Venus square Neptune and a packed 8th house, I erase myself and the person who betrayed me completely. I amputate.
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eagleDear Elsa,

I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?

What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?

Curious
United States

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Vicious Women And The 80/20 Rule

January 17th, 2010 @ 5:10 pm by Elsa

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If you’ve read this blog awhile, you know I think in terms of the 80/20 rule, aka the Pareto Principle which states that thing naturally fall in groups with an 80/20 split.  As an example I have written, if you are happy with your partner 80% of the time, this is a very good sign. For one thing, if you’re not happy 80% of the time, you are probably unhappy 80% of the time, but also this is a percentage that is sustainable over time which predicts the relationship will last.

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Open Question: Can A Person Conceal Their Character? POLL

January 17th, 2010 @ 6:44 am by Elsa

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Boy the soldier and I got into a rousing debate over this one. Say a person misrepresents their character in order to form a relationship with someone who might reject them otherwise. How long do you think they can go without their character flaw coming out?

How long can a person conceal their character in relationship?


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Can you elaborate? Where is your Venus?


The Astrology Of Vicious Women

January 13th, 2010 @ 7:35 pm by Elsa

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mimi mottet asks on Self Esteem - Got Any?

“Do you have anything to say about Women Who Are Jealous of Other Women for no particular reason? There are lots of websites dedicated to the Horrible Things Women Do To Other Women. It’s an old story but I’d like to hear your philosophical (or astrological) take.”

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Are you fast or slow to draw a conclusion?

January 10th, 2010 @ 8:44 am by Elsa

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I draw conclusions very quickly, my husband draws conclusions very slowly but once he does, he’s fixed. He drives me a crazy at times (he has Saturn on his mercury, I have Mars on mine) but I acknowledge his method has merits.

I might adopt his method if mine failed all the time and I suffered consequences but I rarely do. It’s like gambling and losing 1 in 20. It’s not worth all the extra effort and delay not to lose the 1 bet, especially when I have enough control I don’t bet BIG on the fly. My big bets, I have myself covered and this system works for me.

He says he is not slow, he simply waits until all the information.

Are you a slow or fast processor? Where is your Mercury?

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