Is your friend or partner constantly criticizing or complaining about you? Chances are they don’t even like you…

Have you ever tried to have a relationship with someone who had contempt for you?

I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you!
update- there were a lot of questions in the comments, I have started to address them here: Astrology Q&A - What if there is nothing in my 7th house?

Not everyone can be an Aries!

(from 2008) Virgo and Pisces often spar but are inexplicably linked. Does everything matter or does nothing matter? What if your life is at stake?

Coach John Wooden has a opinion… A Critical Detail, The Feet
Wooden : A Lifetime of Observations and Reflections On and Off the Court

From March 2008: Is there someone for everyone? I think so. Tips on finding your ideal love - Awareness is key…

(From Sept, 2008) “Make me think I’m crazy when I know I’m not…”
(ask the collective question below)

gaslighting - wikipedia
Other elsa blogs on gaslighting / manipulation in relationship
Also on the topic of venus neptune / pisces types in relationships
UPDATE - follow up to this video is here: Why Do People Undermine Someone’s Happy Relationship?
Are you susceptible to gaslighting techniques? Can you see the tendency (or lack of) in your chart?

From June, 2008 - Introduction to my idea that parenting is in crisis. I expect this to be exposed by Pluto’s transit through Capricorn.

Anyone else willing to cop to struggling with this?

How to quit wasting your time on Mr/Ms Wrong, never mind feel a whole lot better.

This is from 2008, part of a series of videos on defending yourself… here is an example of a Saturn Neptune defense.

“Signs” by the Five Man Electrical Band

For more on this topic skip to -> Escape Via Imagination

Wedding control 101!!! Confessions Of A Control Freak