mars city in ruins trading cardI am always amused people think you can put a dress on Mars. I have Mars in LIBRA and it is still Mars. It’s angry, it’s raw, it’s uncivilized and the effects of this transit have been pronounced and we’re barely getting started.

As I mentioned in the previous post, the house where Mars in Leo falls is going to be super-hot and relentlessly energized. In my case, it falls in the 7th, I already have Mars in Libra which is similar so I am fighting “the other” all over the place.

This blog is threatened to be overrun with people who want to fight me or challenge me and I want to fight them right back. You’re mad? Well I am mad too, son of a bitch! I have lost count the number of my “open enemies”. I am getting more than just mildly threatened behind the scenes. Matter of fact some are on the verge of making death threats at this point and they definitely messing with the wrong chick.

We’ve got a rash of people out there blowing up this and shooting up that. They rely on people being passive and PC and allowing themselves to be terrorized. I am not from that camp.

You bring your crazy wild animal self into my house, I swear I will empty the gun into your head and if I miss and you get me… well then my husband will come for you and if you think you’ll survive him, you’re out of your mind.

I am not on your turf. I have no intention of coming anywhere near your turf but if you come on mine and attack, then it’s game on. This blog (and my house) is for people who can maintain a degree of decorum. Rabid dogs fall short and in my land we take animals like that out back and shoot ‘em.

I realize there are legions of people who think you can cure a rabid dog by petting and cooing and placating it but I’m not one of them. I will shoot the rabid dog in order to spare the town and I will shoot without hesitation because I understand the nature of rabid dogs and have no desire to live (or try to live) among them.

For people around here who are upset by this, I am sorry. But if I don’t take an aggressive stance this blog will absolutely be overrun On the other hand if I play my cards right, come July there will still be a blog here that you recognize.

Where does Mars in Leo fall in your chart and what is happening?

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80 Responses to “Mars In Leo For 8 Months (October 16, 2009 - July 10, 2010): How Is It Going?”

1.
georgep
georgep

Transiting Mars is in my third house, and will be exactly squaring natal Mars (in Scorpio) this week. I’m feeling a real energy buzz, very physical. Some on edge and very alert, which I’ll need driving around.

 
2.
Goatboy
Goatboy

Personally, I’ve had it with maladjusted people getting their bully on at every opportunity. I will allow anyone a moment to vent, but beyond that my sense of egalitarianism is not going to make me put up with it anymore. I got in an EPIC fight with my bully coworker a few weeks ago and since then he is still a bully but he’s not doing it around me.
Be constructive with each other. And if you can’t do that, keep a lid on it.

 
3.
omie
omie

I have natal mars/mercury in Leo, and I love love LOVE this transit. Yes I was so mad the other day I was practically blind, but for me the was the rest of my chart is set up, having better access to my fire is invaluable.

 
4.
pam
pam

It’s in my 9th and in Tiramisu’s 12. I’m dealing with reconciling disparate religious/philosophical issues and he keeps being surprised by stuff I would personally think he should be able to see.

 
5.
Molly
Molly

It’s in my 10th House and at the moment it’s very near my MC.
I have been looking for jobs and all of sudden in November I had three interviews. Also the interviews I had were with the best companies in the industry I work in.
I’m also given more exciting work at work to show off my skills which is great.
At the moment I’m literally obsessed with my career and all my focus is on it.
It’s rather exciting transit for me at the moment but I will have to wait and see the results.

 
6.
Dorothy
Dorothy

10th house here two, conjunct mid-heaven, and hitting my sun, venus/uranus conjunction. I am in grad school - started in September. So that is a good thing - but this past week I have been testy, testy, testy, and I am trying to rein it in.

 
7.
Cassi
Cassi

Elsa, is this how Mars is on your birth chart or is there an ongoing transit chart that I do not have a clue about? I would like to know about this.
I am with you on all of that. Do not fuck with me or my fam. You will get hurt.
I enjoyed this Fighting Mars Mission statement of yours. Kind of gave me some motivation this morning.
Thank you.

 
8.
Elsa
Elsa

Cassi, transiting Mars is in my 7th, the house of open enemies and so I am being shot (and shooting back) in plain site.

As to defending myself and my family, I came to this conclusion several years ago when I could not get the police to respond when I needed help. I was writing about that (Astrology for Smart People) but fell off the topic because it just gets too thick. But fact is, due various circumstances I was informed by Saturn (the police) that I was on my own if in danger and let’s just say I took them seriously.

I realize many (most?) of you do not live where and how I do but I do live where and how I do so…

And the war zone is coming to your neighborhood soon enough so when it does you’ll know where to come for advice. ::smiles:: And relief both comic and otherwise.

 
9.
Candela
Candela

Mars is in my 12th house now, and conjunct to my Saturn. If the past has catched up with me, thus far it’s been all good. I operated when the transit was exact, and am hopefully leaving behind medical problems I’ve suffered all through Saturn in Virgo. I also was selected and have started training for a very Saturn in Libra job, the first paid one ever in which I’ll be able to use directly an important part of my formal training.

 
10.
Cassi
Cassi

I have had to protect my self and my kids at various times through out our and my life. Last year someone tried to kill me and also threatened to kill my kids. I spent most of last year dealing with the justice system to make sure that my kids and I are protected from this maniac. No easy task as the view of law is innocent until proven guilty. No matter, I stuck it out and I feel that justice prevailed as best it could.
This year I am tired and exhausted from all the fighting…I guess I ought to wake up and smell the coffee.

 
11.
mmarianna
mmarianna

Its in my 6th house just passed my natal Moon.

Some people were telling me today that they went to climb the mount Sinai in Egypt. The tour guides were taking them during the night because its very hot to do it when the sun is up.
The woman that was telling the story said: If it was day I wouldnt go because I would have seen how huge and roaky it is!” It took them more than 2 hours to climb.

It got me thinking….! Personally I have(need) to see the mountain before I climb it(Stellium Sagi 10th). It will give me the inspiration,courage —and motivation(Scorpio Venus) I need! I just have to get better in persistance,in one step at a time. (NN Aries 2nd)

 
12.
Sea
Sea

Mars in Leo is going great for me… but I’m hugely lucky to have a very compassionate tiger as a partner. So I’ve been throwing temper tantrums and he thinks it’s a good thing - it’s very unusual for me to get angry, and he thinks it’s good for me. He’s been getting angry too, and we go wild, climbing the walls together. Then we scamper back down together giggling. It wasn’t exactly fun, but we really respect each other, and we love that we’re tough and courageous and not scared of a fight. Each of us has been getting angry for good reasons, and we can see that. Wouldn’t want to be together with a pushover, ya know!

(But mars is transiting my 8th and 9th houses, and I have no idea how or if that’s playing out. Can’t tell what that would be.)

 
13.
goddess
goddess

It’s in my twelfth - 3rd natal Mars. Which I’ve noticed an increased urge to shoot my mouth off, fairly notable with natal Mars/Merc to have this increased.

Don’t really know what to expect with the 12th transit position. Maybe I can transform or integrate something…Or maybe I’ll just be pissed and have no idea why…snort.

 
14.
Cee
Cee

love your stuff Elsa have been reading for a while. Mars is trasiting 12th and conjuncting Mercury opposition to natel Saturn, I have supprised my self at how fast I am reacting to anger from others and my own where I might not have told them off before I am letting them have it, not use to dealing peoples reactions to my anger, not to mention the the transit saturn in my first house hitting Mars/moon conjunction at 29 degree Virgo, finaly spit a 23 yr relationship.

 
15.
Elsa
Elsa

Welcome, Cee. :)

 
16.
Crackers
Crackers

It’s transiting my 1st house - I’m a little braver. Speak up a little more despite my having a tight natal conjunction of Mercury/Saturn (so not too much, of course.)

But my focus has been on 1st/4th/7th & 10th house issues for so long now (ever since Elsa first recommended it as a focus for these times - which was what, 8 months or more ago?), that it is really just more of the same for me. Altho’ a bit more of the focus goes now on 10th house stuff (which is ruled by Aries in my chart) as well as 1st house concerns, so maybe that’s another manifestation of mars transiting my 1st house.

 
17.
von
von

Mars is currently sitting between natal uranus and pluto in my 4th house… opposite transiting neptune and jupiter who are sitting on my packed 10th house (venus, mercury, chiron and MC).
I need to think about that LOL

 
18.
von
von

I thought about it… there has been a lot of activity around the house… getting it in order with lawn mowing and buying new curtains and cushions. I guess that’s using energy positively huh?

 
19.
Marie Rose
Marie Rose

greeting goddess, it is a wild ride in the 12th,
I have pluto there natally so it naturally does
take me to the void through the veils and into
the heart of the cosmos which is ever breathing
in and out like a wave this too shall pass,
I am pissed off at being a recluse right now,
but in truth I can no longer tolerate lies or
bullshit from the scaredy cat people all addicted
to the illusion of fear and scarcity, in the heart
of the universe all is absoluteley pure perfect and
oh my goodness intensely alive.
I have been writing some intense poetry and my art
is changin, the dark twisty parts of myself finaly
getting a voice through this.

 
20.
opal
opal

Where to start? It’s in my 11th, approaching conjunction with natal Mars in Leo which is square Neptune, opposite Saturn and trine Venus. I’m so effing supercharged it hurts, literally, can’t sleep, relax, went to the acupuncturist yesterday and that did n’t seem to make any difference either!

What is brilliant, though, is that the Mars conj Mars is powering me to break through the preventions of the natal Saturn and Neptune aspects which are 5th and 2nd house, so my self-esteem around my creative pursuits is ON and I’m working with a confidence and vigour I haven’t had before.

So if I can just keep a handle on the explosive emotions (currently squaring my Scorpio moon) all will be well!

 
21.
tinaroma
tinaroma

It’s in my 12th. I have no idea, can’t peg it, but am listening to all of you…

 
22.
tinaroma
tinaroma

And MarieRose, awesome!

 
23.
jenfullmoon
jenfullmoon

In my 9th right now. I want to go out of town but can’t, and spend my time working at a school. I would be quite pleased to spend my time getting the hell out of her for December, away from my jerky relatives. But it’s natally in my 9th and I always feel like that.

 
24.
Suomi Man
Suomi Man

Long Live the Second Amendment!! Thanks for your support!!

 
25.
kashmiri
kashmiri

In my 8th. (currently conj. natal Saturn and activating Grand Fire trine).
I secured funding to fulfill a lifelong dream. Still dealing with poor vision in one of my eyes but I have faith that eventually technology will trump poor genetix. My mum had cornea transplant so it’s nice to know someone who’s lived it and came out better for it.

 
26.
Elsa
Elsa

Welcome, Suomi Man. :)

 
27.
kashmiri
kashmiri

Oh and my sex life is awesome. He’s got Sun, Mercury, Venus and MC in Leo.
you asked! LOL

 
28.
Liz
Liz

Good to see you Kashmiri. And hear of your hot sex :)

Went out with my leo sister-in-law and brother last night. Saw her let her hair out and it was a lot of fun. Costume murder mystery night party. Danced and laughed with new people (most married). Did a bit of networking through a connection to my sister-in-law (leo mars transit to my 10th) then went back to partying. It was reassuring that i’m on the right track with networking. If nothing firm lands by the spring then i’m going to take a different tack. I’m surrounded by saturn in leo, gemini, aries types. And am wondering about their affect on me as i have saturn in cancer.

An old boss has saturn in taurus and thinks i have what it takes to write/produce. Wonder if I should be associating more with saturn in earth/water types.. Will know more by spring.

 
29.
zillah
zillah

Thanks for this, Elsa - the current Mars transit hits my ninth house and jazzing up a bunch of my chart - it is exactly square my natal Mars in Taurus, but also conjunct my natal Neptune. There’s lots more. Mostly I’m SERIOUSLY cranky about work at the moment which is not my usual mode. I guess I’m going to be for a while, though . . .

 
30.
Jessica
Jessica

2nd, where I have Saturn, and I sure hope that means $$$ because I am ready to sock it away.

Elsa, I love your “house,” I feel safe!

 
31.
Elsa
Elsa

Thank you, Jessica. :)

 
32.
kashmiri
kashmiri

thanks:)

 
33.
doc
doc

I think it’s in my 4th or 5th house, depending on exactly where it is. Given that my mom can’t remember exactly when I was born, that’s about as close as it’s gonna get. Maybe all this fiery-ness explains the car accidents, fistfights, and general insanity right now. I had to dial 911 this morning because of an escalating arguement in a shopping mall parking lot, of all places. ho ho ho. I came home.

 
34.
Conny
Conny

Mars-Mercury in Leo 7th house, so this is pretty familiar. Dear enemies, you’re always welcome… I just stabbed a guy who dragged pictures from my ad too use them on his own - but I do it gently, so the embarrassment keeps them from coming for more.

 
35.
ampm
ampm

Hi - quite new here. I think your blog is amazing. This Mars period is in my 7th house also and as my own Mars is in Aquarius, I’m feelin’ it, most definitely feelin’ it. For the first time in years, even decades, I had the urge today to break something. Luckily, a cheap, free pen from the bank was all that sustained damage! (I HATE breaking stuff when I’m ticked off.) Anyway, thanks for all the effort and expertise you put into this endeavor; your dedication really shows. :)

 
36.
Elsa
Elsa

Welcome ampm and doc! :)

 
37.
Lucy
Lucy

Mars in Leo is in my 3rd, and right now and lately squaring my natal Saturn and trining my natal Uranus. I’m finding that I’ve been able to be a lot more productively assertive than I usually am and defending myself better, and as such I’ve avoided some really nasty power struggles and gracefully resolved some fights that could have otherwise been bad. Which is good, because when Mars first went into Leo it turned everybody around me into a huge asshole and I didn’t know how to cope. Now I think it’s starting to level. I need all the fire I can get.

 
38.
Jorge Torres
Jorge Torres

Mars in Leo in My 1st house i have more energy than Usual but oppositin Saturn and conjunction North Node it is a little confusing i hope i can direct all this energy !!!!!!!!!!

Best Wishes !!!!!!!!!!!

 
39.
diastella
diastella

12th and 1st. Did go through crisis and aimed all my warrior’s anger on me. Now coming to point where I never want to compromise my true essence again via relationship. Am becoming more focussed on my life work, who I truly am, my unique gifts for this life - with Pisces Venus in the 7th, I tend to lose myself in relationship. I am getting older now and have been hiding behind the same curtains for years - no more ever. Some delightful, new people have been making me laugh at myself and my ‘purities’ when it comes to others….and so, the healing and transformation is very welcome.

 
40.
Deb
Deb

Elsa, remember that opposition I mentioned in a previous comment, the stuff that I’d experienced back when Saturn transited into Virgo?

Well, one of the unlucky gals has resurrected and decided to comment on my blog again… in an attempt to make me look dumb. As usual. Only this time, I didn’t even get mad. Just made my response clear and to the point. I hope that we have an understanding because I am most certainly not the person I was before…

Good luck in your battles!

 
41.
Deb
Deb

(And sorry about the near-death threats you’re receiving. You really should take those seriously and do what needs to be done to do away with them. You know what that is, so I have nothing to suggest. Good luck, again!)

 
42.
Madeline
Madeline

Elsa, I hope there is a way for you to continue to share and still feel/be safe. If not, it will be our loss. This column is about astrology, life management and consciousness. If, through the blog, you and your family are being THREATENED.. is it worth it????? There’s gotta be a way for you to share without setting yourself up as a target!

 
43.
Elsa
Elsa

Madeline, I am not going to be terrorized and/or oppressed. I have said many times I will fight to the death for my freedom. I mean it and further I have meant it (consciously committed to it) since I was I was 16 years old.

Matter of fact, I wrote a 660 page book and in the last paragraph I make a vow (at 16) to kill anyone who fucks with me with my bare hands. I meant that.

 
44.
madeline
madeline

Whew! Murder. The internet and the blogsphere are getting just way too mean and weird. I am on break.Happy holidays!

 
45.
Elsa
Elsa

Yes, that’s right. We live in a world of choice. It is one woman’s choice to allow herself to be raped and killed and another woman’s choice to fight to the death and kill the attacker if at all possible.

A human being has a right to defend themselves. This human being will exercise that right.

I am not going to be killed or raped or any other damned thing just so you think I am nice. Go lecture the perps why don’t you? Go look down your nose at them for Godsakes.

You should be thanking me. I take one of these bastards out, you may be the one who is spared.

 
46.
madeline
madeline

Not sure what is going on but WHEW! Murder???

I come to the internet for a lot of reasons–mostly inspiration and intelligent discussion.

You’re certainly in a frightening space right now.I guess you have some awful enemies.

What’s happening in the blogsphere?

It’s about ASTROLOGY..Right????

Hope your situation improves pronto.

Am taking a nice break from blog-reading for a while.

 
47.
Elsa
Elsa

And by the way, I think you are weird and mean. I’ve not forgotten Madeline. I hope you take a LONG break. Happy passive aggressive holidays to you too. ::rolls eyes::

 
48.
Elsa
Elsa

Madeline, my space is fine, your judgment is off. I feel fantastic, happy, I am just not in the mood to suffer you and your condescension.

The reason is because I feel GOOD and you stick out like a sore thumb.

 
49.
WanderingStar
WanderingStar

Mars is currently in my 10th. All I know is that I ain’t in Kansas anymore. Beyond that I’m at a loss.

 
50.
anna
anna

“It is one woman’s choice to allow herself to be raped and killed and another woman’s choice to fight to the death and kill the attacker if at all possible.”
You don’t really mean this the way it sounds, do you? My neighbour’s daughter, who was 18 and a high-functioning autistic, did not choose to allow herself to be raped and killed while walking to the bus stop. She fought back but her attacker was a large, older man. And there are stories everywhere of women who did not fight back but survived and were able to help put their attackers in jail. Personally, if I were attacked, I would not fight back but would use my mental skills to survive.

 
51.
anna
anna

I should add that I’m Sun, Venus, Moon and Mercury in Gemini squared Mars/Pluto in Virgo. I rely more on my mental strength than my physical strength (although I am tall, strong and have a brown belt in karate).

 
52.
goddess
goddess

Having the ability to read, I am personally able to use my considerable mental prowess to understand context as opposed to taking a potshot at a viewpoint that is NOT being expressed. :roll:

 
53.
Elsa
Elsa

Anna, no I don’t mean it the way it sounds. I am just mad as hell at Madeline and had it up to HERE with her.

I mean exactly what I wrote originally- that I personally would fight to the death. This is a decision I made and it is as valid as any other woman’s approach.

I have been in this game a long time and am well aware there are a range of approaches. I also know that people (women) may also want to decide in the moment. I don’t judge a woman for their decision or presume to know what is right for them and obviously I don’t want to be judged for my decision and this is what pissed me off.

I am sorry how this came across. I hope this is clarifying and I am very sorry for your neighbor’s daughter.

I also wish the guy would have run into me first. If so, I might have killed him and that would have been a very good thing.

 
54.
Elsa
Elsa

Hopefully Madeline will go to some other “internet” for her “inspiration and intelligent discussion” because I am sick to death of being passive aggressively insulted, carved up like a Thanksgiving turkey, told how I feel which is never how I feel and then at the end I am offered her ‘Blessings”.

Bless me by leaving why don’t ya?

I realize some think this is rude or mean but Saturn is in Libra and if you haven’t got boundaries you’re going to run into mine. Because this is MY lesson to learn and you better believe I’m no slacker.

 
55.
Michele
Michele

I remember Madeline, too. With all due respect, please go away.

 
56.
Elsa
Elsa

Michele, I didn’t even publish the shit she wrote when I was getting married.

Like this:

Poor Elsa. Something good is finally happening to you because this wonderful man, the soldier is going to marry you.

HE DOES LOVE YOU.

You are very negative right now, you have a lot of bad energy swirling around you. Hopefully marrying him will help you with all your problems so you can keep up this blog which has become… well it’s been very dark of late, I so SORRY to say but if you BELIEVE, then I BELIEVE this man can help you with your soul… MAYBE, MAYBE, MAYBE”

and on and on and on followed by this:

“Brightest Blessings!”

Can you imagine? Who says that to a woman 2 days before they marry? Are you fucking kidding me?

::laughs::

It reminds me of the Godfather movie. “You come to me on the day my daughter is to be married…”

There are just some things you do not do and throwing shit all over a woman who is about to be married is one of them.

If you do choose to throw shit on someone (a stranger on the internet no less) as they are getting married, then don’t be surprised when they throw it back at you… and it sticks.

I said don’t stick a knife in me. If you do, it is my knife. Best not throw shit at me either, huh? Especially the day before my wedding, case closed.

I am supposedly the voodoo bitch here but really, I can’t recall a time in my life I shit on a bride. Nope. Not a once.

 
57.
Elsa
Elsa

I should just clarify, she left me a series of comments, more then one a day about how lousy I was doing, the days leading up to my wedding. Who does this to someone, hmm?

She has a knack, everything I am feeling great she comes in with how lousy I am and today one of the other astrologers wrote a very nice article about my contribution to astrology so of course here comes Madeline to tell me I am broken.

Projection, man, Ain’t life a bitch.

I am not a spiritually high person in a traditional sense (less anyone is confused). But I am the person who get in the worst mud there has ever been to pull you up and out. I AM the person you can rely on the darkest day you will ever have and guess what? To me that is good enough.

 
58.
belle
belle

Elsa, there are all types of evil out there, as you know. You don’t deserve this. I really just want to give you a hug. :)

I’ll say a prayer for Madeline, too, because I think she may have some mental issues.

 
59.
Elsa
Elsa

::sighs::

Well if that is the case, it is her burden and I just can’t carry it for her (any longer), it’s a sign of the time.

Thanks, Michele. THANK YOU.

 
60.
tinaroma
tinaroma

Well, spirituality comes in many forms. Giving of yourself and acting with honest intentions is pretty high in my book.

 
61.
Elsa
Elsa

Thanks, tinaroma. I just want to be me. And I really don’t want to be corrected or complained about all day. For Godsakes, it;s the Internet The world is huge. If you don’t like me, why are you here every day? And if you do like me why are you nitpicking?

I already explained I cannot make you (anyone) happy more than 80% of the time. Complain to Pareto about that? Jeez Louise I just don’t want to work 16 hours a day and hear about all the problems I am causing and about all the ways I lack.

Find a mirror maybe?

 
62.
Rkkggg
Rkkggg

My Mars is in Libra and I’ve found myself really short-tempered and much more willing to engage in a fight lately. I have no idea why. Is it due to Mars in Leo? I just feel impatient and while I am not out of control with my anger, I do snap more than I ever have before.

 
63.
Elsa
Elsa

Just for the record because I am judged on all this, my premise is this:

When I am walking through the gym and some guy comes up and tells me that while he likes my ass, but he thought my hair looked better last week, and my thighs are kind of flabby I think that is rude.

When someone comes on this blog and says, I used to like you but now I don’t, or you last year’s hairstyle was better then this one, or your nose looks like you have syphilis, this is also rude.

Some say because I am here, I invite remarks like this but I disagree. To me that is like saying because I am in the gym, I invite remarks.

The fact is, decorum (plain, plain, no frills decorum) states, if you don;t have something nice to say, say nothing. Exceptions are made when people ask for feedback or solicit your opinion.

To me these are very BASIC boundaries (Saturn) basic manners (Libra) and I swear if you abide by them you won’t have people who loathe you as you move through your life.

You also won’t have problems on this blog and if you do, you can count on me to come down on your side and defend you with all I’ve got. Basic, basic, basic stuff.

 
64.
omie
omie

Elsa, thank you for all your hard work. lots of love! xo

 
65.
Elsa
Elsa

You’re welcome, omie. Thank you.

 
66.
Elsa
Elsa

I am going back to being personable now. ;-)

 
67.
Elsa
Elsa

I was in the middle of a story, wasn’t I?

 
68.
Orlando
Orlando

Right on! Yes, it was good one. Please continue!

 
69.
wyrdling
wyrdling

mars is now in my twelfth.
explains why my dreams have come back…

otherwise. wow, i mean, sigh. what a job. might it be easier if you let someone else do the deflection? not sure who that would/could be, but you absorb enough flack as is…

 
70.
maureen
maureen

Talk about people who throw rocks wrapped in lace doilies.

This blog rocks (in general, all the time). Thank you Elsa.

 
71.
Lisa
Lisa

LOL Elsa! Sounds like we are DEFINITELY on the same page regarding the Astrologer who *denied* me a reading and accused my “odd ball religious zealot” ass of all sorts of horrible things too! Like stalking and threatening(???) her family (really? how??? WOW!), hacking into her blog, following her, and trying to break into her house, wherever the *hell* that is! Like a University Professor would actually STALK somebody!!! :( ::scratches head, perplexed::

Perspective is WAY off indeed. Who talks about their 36-year old “grown son” like he is an 8 year old? oooo my poor little baby virgin boy ((finally)) had a girlfriend but *I* decided she was STALKING HIM because he is my BABY and I am terribly frightened of Scorpios (i.e.: I MADE HIM BREAK UP WITH HER because I am an overprotective obsessive PA weirdo! And then *made him* cut off all their mutual friends. And then MANDATED him to not reply to ANY text messages, emails, or phone calls like a helpless stubborn baby)! Talking to someone as if they are in the 3rd person/Silent treatment/Passive Aggressive ROCKS ::rollllls eyes:: :roll:

And she tells me I need to “get help”. WOW. Yes, I am the one who needs help. Grammar help, right? ::spins head as pea soup spews out of mouth:: :P and something about calling the police because I am “a threat” -REALLY? After reading your blog Elsa, I am convinced I am NOT the only one who has had a problem with this woman. Could the problem really be ME? The answer is NO.

Brightest BLESSINGS ;)

And this I pray: Dearest Buddah, PLEASE manifest an entirely separate, blocked, invite-only, wacko-only, private internet for this troubled soul. O great Lord Ganesha, Remover of Obstacles, please remove this obstacle from our lives!!! (btw I am a “religious zealot” because I study world religions, etc)

And eat lots of NUTS (they’re good protein you know! no I didn’t know that, Im a f*ing moron). Meditate often. Go on walks. Plant a garden. Feng Shui your closet. Clear your clutter. Do some yoga. Get a massage. Get a divorce. Piss off your office manager so she quits. And then complain about it. Delete your Facebook account because it is *the root of all evil*. Eat Ben and Jerry’s and gain 50lbs if you have to damnit! Whatever it takes just DISAPPEAR ALREADY! The vote is unanimous… WHEW I thought it was just me!!! ::hearty sigh of relief::

ELSA, YOU ARE NOT BROKEN - and surprise - NEITHER AM I! HOORAY! We shall not take any more of this crap. I’m done ranting about this *lovely topic* now, and happy to be in good company here on your awesome blog.

For those experiencing actual TRUE safety concerns (Cassi, others), MOVE your children to a safe place, like a friend or family member’s house, or a house on a Lake in Arkansas! Life is precious- ACTUAL threats and dangers are very unfortunate and (in my opinion) inhumane.

Michele, thank you for your prayers regarding this matter, seriously THANK YOU! Please pray for her son’s salvation also, or at least for his independence and detachment from her. This is what I pray.

And now, may BLESSINGS resonate throughout the blogosphere! :D

 
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SaDiablo
SaDiablo

“… I am the person who get in the worst mud there has ever been to pull you up and out. I AM the person you can rely on the darkest day you will ever have and guess what? To me that is good enough.”

A-fuckin’-men! Lord knows you and the girls have been here for me during my crisis, and helped probably more than any of you realize. That makes you balls-out stellar in my book. *giant hugs for everyone, especially E*

On a completely unrelated note, my mom, a bartender, keeps getting hit on by a particularly sleazy customer who keeps saying rather rude things about her physique. I told her the story about you telling the guys that were doing the same to (paraphrasing) pony up and put their goods on the bar and she just about lost it. Said she’s totally going to do that next time he hits on her when the bar’s full. ;) Gotta love ballsy women!

 
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Elsa
Elsa

SaDiablo - that post is here.

Funny how the episode on this post is so similar. Start talking about me out of school at your own risk, that is just all there is to say.

 
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Jessica
Jessica

I am so cracking up at all the blessings ricocheting around the blogosphere! :D

“I AM the person you can rely on the darkest day you will ever have and guess what? To me that is good enough.”

I am positive that is true. I had a dream that my son died and I went straight to your house to just lie down in your front yard (sorry… it was dreamland). You may wonder why I didn’t go with my family, but that’s how it went in my dream.

 
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Elsa
Elsa

You’re so sweet, Jessica. Thanks for that but your son is safe! :)

 
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Jilly
Jilly

((shaking my head in bewilderment at some folks’ behavior))

 
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Jessica
Jessica

Elsa, I’m glad you read that as “sweet” and not, “er… what is this bereft woman doing on my lawn?” Haha. :)

 
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Elsa
Elsa

I just understand it, Jessica. That boy is the world.

 
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Jessica
Jessica

I just wouldn’t belong anywhere anymore.

 


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