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Love And Murder AKA Venus In Aries and Mars In Libra For Starters
Astrology in real life
I was talking to my sister the other day and she mentioned some gal who tried to get between her and her husband awhile back . Not the brightest move, that’s for sure. My sister took her out in 4 seconds.
“Yeah, we don’t put up with that at all, do we? Mess with our husbands and you’re sure to get hurt. I wonder where we learned that because we are both that way. Mess with out husbands and you are immediately going down. You’re going to be neutralized and swiftly.”
She agreed.
“I wonder where we got that. Not all women are like us. Some women invite another woman in. Here. Come hang around my husband. What the hell are they doing? I won’t put up anything like that at all.”
“Me neither. She thought she was going start some shit and I came down on her…
Here is what happened to a woman who breathed in front of my sister’s husband once - Venus in Aries.
She has Venus in Aries, I have Mars in Libra so that explains that.
Another woman sidesteps you while smiling at your man and you and you do… what? I’d like to hear from some people who don’t mind this as well.
27 Responses to “Love And Murder AKA Venus In Aries and Mars In Libra For Starters”
haha.. women love my husband…he was brought up in a housefull of em and he can relate. One of his dearest friends was a woman who died a while back ( no I didn’t snuff her out!!, I really liked her..her aura was “friend”) but I have a sexy lil ole Mars in Scorpio..If I seriously sniff “predatory” I move in and dazzle her in my headlights, and you know what..he does the same with me when guys come too close, but that’s good with us both. 34yrs together and still fresh.
Each to her/his own ..that’s just how it is with us
I give it a sec. My S/O is mature and sharp enough to see what’s happening immediately. I give her a few secs (because that’s all she needs), and she gracefully but quickly backs out. Then the both of us laugh at the 3rd wheel’s desperation.
The only thing better than trust in a relationship is seeing it reaffirmed over and over.
Mars in cappy.
I have male friends, he has female friends. No problems there- even when the friendship is intimate (and some are). But there we draw the line. No way I would put up with a woman flirting with him, nor would he put up with a guy flirting with me.
I would make her an offer too good to be true and sell her a business (my cappy can whip one up pretty darned quick). I’d buy myself something really nice with the (her) money and know where she will be 24/7. She will depend on me for my business knowledge and practical skills. Her beauty will fade and the stress will show on her face.
Don’t mess with my family, especially my man. 
Depends on what he’s doing as a result. My issue would be with his participation in her stupid game, not her. She’s of nothing to me. HE’S the committed one.
Not to say I wouldn’t have a problem with it, because I seriously would, but it’s going to be all on HIM - not her.
Venus in Pisces/Mars in Aries.
It all depends on my fiance’s reaction to be honest. I’d get pissed off, of course, but if I see that she’s enjoying the attention then I get pissed off at her for letting it happen. I don’t feel like I should be anyone’s bodyguard.
I think it’s actually a test of loyalty and it’s not mine to pass.
Actually, now that I think about it, I’ve had a woman call me at work and tell me to stay the hell away from her man. We were just friends, but for some reason she thought I was a threat to her and she “knew that he was calling me”.
I told her that if she had a problem with it, she needed to be talking to HIM about it - their relationship was between them and had NOTIHNG to do with me.
I also told her if she ever contacted me at work again, I’d fuck her up because I was NOT the one she wanted to be tangling with.
*click* She never got in a word edgewise and I never heard from her again, but he broke up with her a couple months later and we remained friends.
“The only thing better than trust in a relationship is seeing it reaffirmed over and over.”
^So true. That’s lovely.
I have Venus in Cap 1st house, Mars in Scorpio 10th house. Also a Taurus Moon (5th house) Sag Sun (12th house) and I honestly think it’s cute when I’m with a guy and a girl is obviously trying to work her way in. But what do I do? Nothing. I let him handle it. Then based off of how he handles it, I let it go, or I let her know she needs to back off. Depends on how involved I am with the guy too. It’s telling how he’ll handle the relationship altogether if things like this happen in the beginning stages. I want to watch him handle it. I’m not here to babysit him. It’s quite funny. I know that he will never find another girl like me if he decides to leave. This has happened to me two times. Each time the guy has left just to discover that surprise, surprise the grass WAS NOT greener on the other side. Well, no, cause I told you that. It’s not even me being arrogant… I just know that I offer genuine relationship qualities and they cannot be duplicated. These girls come off as perfect too soon. I come off as a complete mess, fireball, too quiet, too loud, too honest, too bossy, sassy, whatever “issues” he can find with me. But something has to keep them coming back… And it’s the stability of it all.
The fact that someone can actually have all these colorful emotions (intense Scorpio) but keep them controlled (Capricorn) and be honest in showing them (Sagittarius) and still be stable enough to deal with their own emotions and your (Taurus) is what keeps them coming back.
That’s real.
I think some of it is cultural. I know when the soldier and I have talked about moving to South America, he told me that I would get along fine with the women there as long as I had a husband as in best stay away from theirs!
Hmmm, very true Elsa. I didn’t think about it that way.
I think I may give off too much of my Scorpio energy sometimes though because some women just stare at me like I want to eat their husband alive, when I’m surely not even thinking about that. Haha. It’s quite strange.
I also wanted to add that my reactions to situations like this are different in different stages of a relationship. When I’m first talking to a guy and we’re getting to know each other, I like to make sure that he and I are on the same page, as in not seeing anyone else. If I feel that he is BSing me in any way (get the vibes from my Scorpio Mercury) then I will cut him off, and especially if another girl tries to come in and I already feel like this… His reaction is telling. If I am actually settled into a relationship with him, I am calm and I trust that he will do what is best by both of us and our relationshihp. I”m not really as jealous as I could (or should) seem (but in the beginning I’m very territorial, are we together or not? Cause don’t waste my Sag Sun time when I could be running the pastures… Asshole… Haha) with some of my placements, but I definitely want to know that the man is mine and mine alone because if I’m going to offer this raw relationship material to you, don’t you dare abuse it or you and I will be gone. D-O-N-E. And I never look back. Learned that lesson years ago. If he can’t appreciate it, close that door and keep moving, somewhere at some time someone will learn to appreciate and value the love you give because their love will be just as real as yours.
Hey Elsa,
Like your sister I have Pisces Sun and Venus Aries. My man is charasmatic Taurus and has a a beautiful smile. If I sense that a woman if trying to move in on my man, I stand there toe-to-toe with the lady looking in her deep in her eyes letting her know I know what she’s up too. My man will see from my facial expressions and body language that I not having it.
My fiancee and I have a policy that game players and troublemakers of any kind are immediately and instantly vaporized. (This has already been enforced, and it’s nice in that it leaves our immediate surroundings clear and clean for “good people”.)
Venus/Mars in Aries, opposing Pluto. Every situation is different but I have complete confidence I could shut down a hostile interloper if the situation called for it.
Generally speaking, I want my partner to deal with this. As in, do NOT make it my problem because if it becomes my problem, it will. Just like if a man was coming on to me and trying to side-step my partner, I’d prefer to give him the shove myself and save my partner the stress of having to get riled.
I see it as a display of commitment. I’ll take care of the people chasing me, and you take care of whose chasing you. And I’d prefer a man who’d stand up and say “I love my partner, so bugger off,” honestly.
Agree Kash, and my hubby has a way of tugging me under his arm with affection any time he senses a come on, and that’s when I dazzle with my headlights..cos it doesn’t matter that I know with all my heart and soul that we are true to each other, I think it’s naughty of women to do that, so like Tan, I do that Pisces thing with my eyes, no hostility, just that deep gaze that says “can I help you ma’am, or are you just looking?”!!
I prefer to let my guy handle it, but if he’s slow on the draw I will step in and vaporize (and then he’s in for it later).
My ex was always, always, always slow on the draw and used to bitch at me for obliterating women he was “just talking to.” Protect your fucking relationship and there’d be nothing to complain about. *fume*
I have a venus in aries and a mars in libra. No one comes near my fellah, not in front of me. I can’t control what they do outside my view, but if my man cheats, he’s gone. He’s cut off. He’s out of here and he gets NO second chance. He made his dump and now he can be left with it. I’ve done that a few times, now.
I have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aquarius with Uranus conjunct AC. I’m not openly protective, I trust my guy. He knows where the line is. He also knows the consequences of even pondering what it’s like on the other side of the line. I like to leave the perception of fate in his hands.
As for another woman even trying? Simple. World War III. (I have a tight Sun/Pluto-Moon-Mars T-Square in fixed signs. ‘Nuff Said)
It’s funny. I’m not a jealous type so much, my husband has female friends. But I’ve had women throw themselves at him on a couple of occasions– I sh*t you not, one of them perched her boob on his arm while drunkily offering him gum right in front of me once. A second chick we knew was unhealthily obsessed with him and tried to come over every weekend to spend time with him– er, “us”. (We put a stop to that.)
We’re married, now. But I didn’t get what was happening back then. He’s a wonderful guy, cute but no Russell Crowe. And for another, neither of these chicks paid him any mind before I came into the picture.
Of course they’d start behaving like morons while we dated– of course! Glad those gnats backed off… because I can forgive a first offense but if my boundaries were crossed, we’d have had a little trouble.
I’m an Aries woman with Venus in Aries and Mars in Scorpio. Women have always liked my husband and my husband has always gotten along well with women. In the 37 years we have been together, the few times women have misread my husband, he quickly but kindly let them know that he wasn’t interested in anything beyond a friendship.
I like it that women like and trust my husband.
Another woman could not get between us unless he allowed it to happen; if it ever happened, I would hold him responsible not her. I have never believed that men are weak and that the woman (like poor Eve) is to be held responsible for the man’s fall.
I might rescue my husband if a situation was making him uncomfortable, but I wouldn’t be territorial or aggressive with the woman.
a couple of you said you’d blame the man if things got out of hand, and i agree with that to a point. but i also feel like moving in on another woman’s guy is a violation of the sisterhood, too. like something you owe other women, to respect that.
we haven’t had a lot of would-be interlopers. wise of those who would consider it to reconsider, i think.
mars in aries 4 H- i too believe that your man has to take care of the situation, and if he doesn’t deal with it, well he is not up to my need to see mars in aries reflected in the man- kick him to the curb he is no warrior if he can’t even manuver hostile territory!!! my husband has mars in cancer and puts up excellent barriers- as i said, i have mars in aries, so i can deal with the situation, it is just my husband who somtimes randomly pulls me out of a conversation with his craws
as far as flirting goes, both myself (venus sag) and my husband (venus in gemini) have a need to talk and flirt…no big deal. we both love to tell big whoppers too!
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Mars in Gemini, Venus in Taurus - if it happens in front of me, I put my hands all over him, chattering away like a cat watching a bird from the inside until she gets the hint and walks off. If she doesn’t, the cat gets loose & the bird (her) gets the claws and teeth. 
If it’s a scenario where I am not around, but learn of it, I judge based on how he (apparently) handled it.
Oddly, I am very conflicted about all of that. A part of me is extremely jealous & possessive, and yet, another part of me says it is wrong to be that way. I have fights about it with myself constantly. I’ve ruined relationships by picking the wrong side. 
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