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Marriage, Morphing, Jealousy, Possessiveness etc.
Astrology in real life
The other day someone remarked that I was very sensitive with my wedding dead ahead. I thought this was true to an extent.
Yesterday I was talking to Annalisa about the soldier’s Venus in Gemini and his attraction to my communication. I explained that all the girl singers he likes wave their Gemini-ruled hands around. They use hand gestures and I can see that he’s mesmerized. I also told her about his associating me with Anne of Green Gables for her dramatic speech… the very depths of despair and she agreed I had this quality.
Last week I noted that while the soldier would never inhibit me but deep down he’d be very happy if I never left the house and if I were to leave that I wear a burka or something similar. He is a Taurus Sun, Scorpio Moon so quite possessive. I called him this morning.
“I was going to take a shower and then try to make some videos, a few of them. Yeah, it’s been forever. It’s been months since I made a video but I have some things I think I should say now so I am going to try to get this done.”
“Oh,” he said.
“Yeah,” I said as it dawned on me. I can feel him you know. “You don’t like it when I make videos do you? You don’t like people seeing me?”
“Well, P, you make them. You gotta do it, that’s your job. It is your job to make them so make them.”
“Well, yeah. They make you jealous?” I shook my head. Of course they make him jealous. They are videos of me talking which is what he is most attracted to. “I’m sorry.”
“It’s okay, P. Make the videos, that’s your job. It’s your job, it;s your job.”
A few minutes later I thought of that gal’s comment about morphing as we get closer to marrying. He’s morphing too. Pretty soon it will be his wife you’re gawking at or talking about and that is a whole different story, this is starting to reveal. Funny how this all comes together. Just the other day, Annalisa remarked, Marriage is a Big Deal.
The soldier has told me many times he thanks God I am not a singer. He does not think he could stand it if he had to watch me get on stage and shake my ass. These videos test his limits. He used to order people to avert there eyes when I walked down the hall in his barracks when I was a kid. I moved in there with him, you know.
17 Responses to “Marriage, Morphing, Jealousy, Possessiveness etc.”
things are looking pretty official…
well I should say, I have the same feelings. For example if I were in the stands when he is trying to be the best soldier in the world, I would be thinking he is MY best soldier in the world and be looking around for people to kill. 
I realize this is not PC and perhaps insane but we are primal types and these feelings (while i think they exist in all) in our cases are not all that buried or bred out of us.
Basically if you want refined, you’ve got to steer away from Scorpio and the 8th house.
Hahahah, I am married to a Taurus sun with a Scorpio moon. I relate
I am partnered with a super Scorpio, I am totally picking up what he’s putting down. I wish I could thank the soldier for his understanding, I love your videos…
My comment was swallowed up I think.
Just wanted to say thank you to the soldier for understanding, I love your videos…
This makes me laugh b/c my ex was very jealous/possessive with me, but I couldn’t handle it at all. He’s a Taurus Sun, Libra Moon, Scorpio Rising (with Venus in Gemini - so, it’s no wonder we met online, right?)…He hated it that I had a blog where others could see my writing and talk with me (I should only talk with him! haha)…the Libra Moon showed up when he’d complain that I put on makeup for work, but not “for him” (i.e., on the weekends) - gotta be fair, right? heh…I often wondered if any of that would have become toned down if we got married…too late now, though. 
Aaaaanyway, I’m glad the Soldier is so understanding I love your videos, too…
Aha! So I’m not insane or dysfunctional, just got a Scorpio Moon. Oh goody.
Thanks for the support on the videos. I did get another made for tomorrow. Blew my mouth off but oh well. Let’s face it, I am not a politician.
My husband is a Virgo/Scorp/Virgo. Not so possessive to me. But pretty intensely loyal and attentive he certainly is :)!
Hi, Deb. Welcome. We do know we’re crazy. It’s in our nature, our blood and in the synastry as well - Bug Zapper Effect
Hi :).
Yes. My husband is definitely weird with a disturbing sense of humor. Could be why we paired up ;).
Having a VEnus in Taurus and a Pluto square Moon, I understand the possessiveness thing very well. My partner is a very good looking man and there are times where I get antsy when he’s on-stage or when he has to show himself somehow (very rarely as he doesn’t like public spotlight very much), I get a bit jealous. However, I’ve accepted that at certain times, this is inevitable. I will not prohibit him from “shining” because this makes him happier - and I’m all about making him happier rather than giving in to my selfishness and jealousy.
Scorpio moons - my dad has one that almost never peeps out, he’s so Sagittarius, but read this recent quote:
“I will defend you to the ends of the earth. (My ex) is an ass. Complete and
total. He scares me and I want you out of his reach. Have you talked to
your lawyer about leaving the state?”
How Scorpio moon is that?
Elsa, thanks for the new video content. Love it!
great video!! i relate as well, my husband is a taurus sun stell and venus conjunct mars in gemini. he is very possesive of me… but having the gemini energy, successfully lies about this, and seems like the most liberal man in the world. cancer moon.
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Hmm… odd… I’ve long known that your chart and mine are very similar, Elsa, and I’ve mentioned before how I’ve been hitchhiking on your insights for years, to my benefit, because much of what you go through, I go through one step behind you.
Where it gets odd(er) is that your fiance and mine also seem to have a lot in common. I’ve noticed (but have not noted down, unfortunately) similarities as you’ve been writing about the soldier. In this post, I am noting, for example, that your fiance and mine both have Taurus sun and Venus in Gemini… and the dynamics you talk about are also playing out in my relationship…
“Venus in Gemini and his [her] attraction to my communication. [my fiancee has repeatedly told me this] … wave their Gemini-ruled hands around. [I'm hot-blooded French and I talk with my hands!! This occasionally causes accidents, like knocking the tray off a waiter as he walks by
]“