Oh wow! I had no idea. See if I can lower the rating..

I smell Saturn in Virgo–bad Xanga editor?

I was able to view it, and thank you for lowering the rating to facilitate access. I feel seethingly helpless right now; I can’t be there for either of you, but I think I have been directed to your blog at this time for a reason. Time will tell why, or not. Just know that you and your friend have my psychic support, for what it’s worth.

I’m driving to freakin’ Amarillo tomorrow for family stuff tomorrow, but you and yours will be in my thoughts, that is for damned sure.

Elsa, sorry to hear things are so difficult right now. I agree with you, though — at the end of the day we all have to look out for ourselves first and if someone is a major threat to your well-being its not a difficult choice — they’ve gotta go. Hopefully it won’t come to that.

Watching this video was heart wrenching . . . and much appreciated insight into how us Pluto/8th House sorts deal with heavy s**t! Take care of your business first & foremost and don’t worry about anything else . . . {{{{Elsa}}}}

Elsa, thank you so much for this video. I can relate. In deep crisis, and only the ultrasensitive friends are surviving in my inner circle. That said, once this is over I think the others will be back.

I never used to understand some of your more self-protective strategies, but now that I’m in a very difficult situation myself I UNDERSTAND. Thank you for your advice and perspective.

I should have been more careful with the things I said during one of my friend’s Pluto transit.

Re: that friendship, it was severed about 18 months ago and from this vantage point I am pretty sure the split would have been inevitable due our very passionate but disparate beliefs on issues pertinent in my life.

really, I don’t miss anyone I lost (in the the last few years) except for Stevie and she just had to go.

“I should have been more careful with the things I said during one of my friend’s Pluto transit.”

Let me restate that:You should always be careful with what you say, transit or no transit.

I just want to repeat what said above (as Amber). This is a great video. And I have come to the conclusion that only people who are in a REAL crisis or have been in one really understand. It’s very different from ‘just looking out for yourself’. It’s when other people cannot see the danger you are in and treat you carelessly (unbeknownst to them). You have to protect if you don’t want to end up dead.
I do not amputate completely, but I have different levels of communication for different people. I have learned to contain (negative) energy a lot more, because people just don’t know what to do with it!

It’s a strange, surreal, sad thing how a deep time of raw, personal pain can sometimes bring the closing of a door. Yet others sometimes, surprisingly, open and the people you get close(r) to through that time, who are really there with you, sitting it out, rocking silently with you, quietly making soup and leaving it beside you..they shine forever. I’m so sorry you’ve had such tough, tough times ((Elsa))