1 Year Ago On The Elsa Blog: Voice Of Mars Regarding Women
Astrology in real life
“He’ll be back just as soon as he gets horny,” the soldier offered.
“No, I don’t think so,” I said regarding a pal’s broken relationship. “She’s not having him, his gig is up. He won’t be back. Doesn’t a man know when his gig is up?”
“I don’t know, P. I’ve not had that much experience but every woman I have ever known has led me to wish I’d been mortared.”
Ever occur to you that men feel this way?
23 Responses to “1 Year Ago On The Elsa Blog: Voice Of Mars Regarding Women”
I have such little insight into the male psyche, every little revelation like this comes as a complete surprise. You mean they’re not emotionless automatons? Huh.
when he says he wishes he’d been mortared does that mean he was upset and wanted to be put out of his misery or he thought they were so awful he wanted to be put out of his misery? or, ya know, “other” cos I’m not very with it with the parsing at the moment…
He means the women deliver more pain then they realize… the men keep a straight / poker face.
Or is mortared like being tarred and feathered and then they get horny in their feathersuit and “come home to mama” cuz other chicks dont want no black tar in bed.
that’s good to hear cos it sure feels like a nothing, a void. you start to wonder if they’re even human.
is the straight poker face a ‘male’ thing or a ’scorpio moon’ thing?
Well…. they can’t be TOO damaged if they see fit to sniff back around when they’re horny.
Seriously, you want to go back to Mogadishu or wherever after you’ve had your arm blown off? Because you’re horny? It doesn’t seem consistent unless you have a death wish or something.
Or maybe men are like guppies who forget about the sunken ship by the time they swim back around the aquarium to the other side. It’s a brand new ship! Surprise! Let’s see if it will put out! I swear, they’re a total mystery.
Del, I suspect in any case it’s “better the minefield you know…”
:p
Pff, no doubt.
Yes, this has occured to me—in fact, I have often found myself going overboard to “protect” a man’s feelings, rather than just be honest about mine. But hey— I’m a woman with Scorpio Moon. Go figure..
Ever occur to you that men feel this way?
Hell yes!
Pisces on the Midheaven. Sun & Mercury in Pisces. Without exception, the relationships that have “ended” have been followed by codas of: “I want you back” with the unmistakable intention of appealing to the particular placement of neptune in my chart.
These were exclusive relationships that lasted a year or more. I knew these people very well. When it was over each and every one of them defied themselves by VERY PUBLICLY GOING NUTS.
When I caught on to the pattern I was able to let go of past resentments I held against other men with whom I had been less seriously involved with. Not everyone is looking for or can handle a close, love relationship under such circumstances as Neptune and the 10th house (the Public) craves.
“He’ll be back just as soon as he gets horny,” the soldier offered.
Never done that. Not once. If the thing is dead (and that’s sad) then it’s dead.
Ever occur to you that men feel this way?
Heh. I think he’s talking as Venus-Saturn there; that is, when the thing ends, it works out that it would have been better not to have done it at all.
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['As my ex- has reminded my by contacting me last week after 2.5 years.']
Yes, but there’s been nothing to occur. I have been and am told on a regular basis.
I find it “interesting” that I hear complaints about women in generally fairly often by men, but it’s never me… until it’s me. More often than not, methinks boys/men create their own misery. Could say the same and more about women.
I actually think his “horny” comment was somewhat facetious. I am quite sure he feels the other and I am sorry this was confusing. I am going to write about it today if I can.
Yes it has occured to me, I mean, I hold this truth to be self evident, Everyone hates getting dumped.
I think women are more inclined to jump on a hint that things are going south, and men as a result of missing what women think are pretty clear signals, end up being bludgeoned. I mean, take too long replying to text messages or phone calls and I’m going to start thinking that maybe a dumping is on the way and in my experience, guys miss this stuff. Or they duck their heads and hope you just get over being pissed rather than having to change or work something out.
lol, I feel this way about men, and I am a woman. They deliver a punch, I keep my poker face on, and the pain that’s delivered is rarely known or understood by them. They don’t know the impact they have on me. And perhaps I am just as clueless about the effect I have on them. Gah.
Mars/Venus in Aries, Capricorn moon
i’m quite sure… some of the stories i’ve heard about things women have done…
*shrug*
people in general can be pretty awful when relationships crack…
It taken time and walking around land mines for me to understand and use my power appropriately. I just assumed men had all the power because that’s what I was told in the world I grew up in. So, when I needed to get my point across I would give it everything I got: Pluto in the 8th square Mars/Jupiter in the 5th. Mercury/Venus in Aries, Scorpio moon. in the 10th. Wats dat spell? Crispy critters, mon, crispy critters. (Sorry guys. I know better now.)
I still want to make the sampler “Don’t Make Me Cut You” as my avatar, though.:-)
“Mars/Jupiter in the 5th”. Oh yeah, Mars in Taurus.
It boils down to this: If a guy Knows or Believes he can’t make You Happy, that’s that. He cant win, what good is it if he is not going to win? He’ll never be a hero with you again. I wish I had know this eons ago, cuz I would have improved my communications skills way earlier then I did. Am still honing on those. I wish I had know about the poker pace too.
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